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It's been a trying week this week (as some of you may have noticed in my last couple of posts... apologies for those, I was in an angry mood), I got a call from a very distraught, very drunk Rubb on Tuesday, seems that he'd woken up that morning to find his girlfriend dead in their bed. He was agonizing about his life recently... lost his 'Busa, lost his car, lost his best friend Jim (and accompanying employment with him) earlier this year and now the girl that he'd planned on marrying on the spring. His living situation is now up in the air as the apartment he shared with his gf is in her name, and rent-controlled as long as she lived there, but with her passing, he doesn't know what will happen.
I tried to be there for him but he was so messed up and incoherent that he ended up passing the phone to a friend who was there and wandered off. The last thing he said to me was that he planned on being very drunk for a very long time. I decided to give him some time and space to make sense of his new world so haven't spoken to him since that call. I'm going to touch base today and see how he's doing.
This weekend is Christmas, a time for family. Rubb hasn't been around the org since losing access to the internet (no computer at home, no data plan on his phone) but I know that he's always considered many of you his family. You will know who you are. For those with faith, pray for Andy. For those with his phone number, maybe reach out? I can't guarantee what kind kind of conversation you'll have but knowing that there are people out there who care about him might go a long way.
That's it. Thanks for reading this and Merry Christmas to you and yours.
I tried to be there for him but he was so messed up and incoherent that he ended up passing the phone to a friend who was there and wandered off. The last thing he said to me was that he planned on being very drunk for a very long time. I decided to give him some time and space to make sense of his new world so haven't spoken to him since that call. I'm going to touch base today and see how he's doing.
This weekend is Christmas, a time for family. Rubb hasn't been around the org since losing access to the internet (no computer at home, no data plan on his phone) but I know that he's always considered many of you his family. You will know who you are. For those with faith, pray for Andy. For those with his phone number, maybe reach out? I can't guarantee what kind kind of conversation you'll have but knowing that there are people out there who care about him might go a long way.
That's it. Thanks for reading this and Merry Christmas to you and yours.