Okay, I try not to post up about this stuff anymore, as I know I used to post about it ALL the time, but here goes...
I got 2 friends, Brittany, who I think of as a sister and was on the busa when I wrecked (She's fine) and Benita (Ta), who I have been crushing on for a while... Heres my problem, and no, I'm not asking for advice about my crush. So, Britt and Ta have things for these 2 brothers that just got back from Iraq, 1 of them just finished his 4 years... I've got bad feelings about both these guys. I never met the older one, Christian, but I've met and joked around with the other brother, Colton. Brit likes Colton, Ta likes Christian... My thing is, I can't tell if this feeling I'm getting is just jealousy, or if it's something I should bring to their attentions... I have learned though, normally, I should act on these feelings like that, as Ta, Lori, Heather, Bart, Garret and I ALL had these feelings the day of the wreck and NEVER acted on them. We didn't even know the others had the same bad feelings till the next week... Plus, I've had these feelings before with friends getting in relationships, and it usually comes true that my feelings were validated. But heres my thing, I know Ta knows I have feelings for her, and I'm afraid she'd chalk it up to jealousy and not a friend voicing a concern... She's become a GREAT friend of mine if nothing else, and I hate to see friends get hurt if preventable... What do you experts think? Would she chalk it up to jealousy? I've been up late the past few nights from these thoughts... I've known she likes him, so thats nothing new... I think Gods trying to tell me to voice it... But I'm just not sure... I've prayed about, but it's still not been too clear... HELP!!!
PS, Don't read this as me having a problem with Marines... FAR from it... Colton's a good guy, but he just sends me this vibe, even before I met him face to face... Meeting him just confirmed that. And I talked with him online before he was in the Marines...
I got 2 friends, Brittany, who I think of as a sister and was on the busa when I wrecked (She's fine) and Benita (Ta), who I have been crushing on for a while... Heres my problem, and no, I'm not asking for advice about my crush. So, Britt and Ta have things for these 2 brothers that just got back from Iraq, 1 of them just finished his 4 years... I've got bad feelings about both these guys. I never met the older one, Christian, but I've met and joked around with the other brother, Colton. Brit likes Colton, Ta likes Christian... My thing is, I can't tell if this feeling I'm getting is just jealousy, or if it's something I should bring to their attentions... I have learned though, normally, I should act on these feelings like that, as Ta, Lori, Heather, Bart, Garret and I ALL had these feelings the day of the wreck and NEVER acted on them. We didn't even know the others had the same bad feelings till the next week... Plus, I've had these feelings before with friends getting in relationships, and it usually comes true that my feelings were validated. But heres my thing, I know Ta knows I have feelings for her, and I'm afraid she'd chalk it up to jealousy and not a friend voicing a concern... She's become a GREAT friend of mine if nothing else, and I hate to see friends get hurt if preventable... What do you experts think? Would she chalk it up to jealousy? I've been up late the past few nights from these thoughts... I've known she likes him, so thats nothing new... I think Gods trying to tell me to voice it... But I'm just not sure... I've prayed about, but it's still not been too clear... HELP!!!
PS, Don't read this as me having a problem with Marines... FAR from it... Colton's a good guy, but he just sends me this vibe, even before I met him face to face... Meeting him just confirmed that. And I talked with him online before he was in the Marines...