I dont really make too many comments on here, but for this one I feel really compelled to. I am in the Army and maybe thats why I really dont understand how this would make this officer more personable. In the Army you want to be able to approach your officer with certain issues but I really wouldnt feel safe deploying to the areas I have deployed to if my LT or CO acts in such a manner. You want to be able to trust someone who carries high rank with your life and to make the tough decisions. I know that alot of the times those decisions are left to Non-Commissioned Officers, but ask anyone in the Army, the final decision will be made by a Officer whether right or wrong. This was obviously a wrong decision for this officer. I hate to see anyone lose there job for anything but you also have to weigh the consequences of your actions before you make them. That is something that we are always taught as servicemen and especially if you carry rank above that of a E-4. This is just my opinion.
Good post soldier. You and Uncle Steve are right. If this had been a LT (JG) he would have gotten away with a little azz-chewing. The higher you get in rank the more you have to be sensitive to "whatever I say/do/email is gonna be posted on the front page of the newspaper, so I'd better conduct myself accordingly".
I've been the XO of a military organization nearly the size of the Enterprise, so I have some perspective. The XO's job is what you make of it, and it's a GREAT job to have (depending on your boss). You have a lot of authority but not nearly the responsibility as the Commander. This warship was deployed on combat operations; that's 24/7, 12-on, 12-off, hot-bunking, no-mistakes, live bombs, fuel and flying aircraft - That's Death staring you in the face; one mistake, the ship blows up. That's what you call a 'high-stress' situation. From what I understand, most of the crew has stood up and said the XO was a great leader, and his 'movie night' was a great stress reliever and brought great humor to the crew. I strongly suspect that, if you got a chance to read his evals, that his actions to keep the crew's morale up are referenced positively and he may have even gotten a medal for his efforts (otherwise he wouldn't have been chosen for Captain). The Navy even KNEW about this WHEN they promoted him, so someone who is now NOT supporting him approved of it.
So, you gotta ask, "why now?" and the answer is the repeal of DADT and the press got ahold of it (and I question the timing and source). What better way to drive home the new PC policy than to fire a few high-ranking guys? Just 5 years ago when this happened, homosexuality was incompatible with military service (and still is IMHO). This guy is being used as a scapegoat, pure and simple. The Navy knew about it, and promoted this guy to Captain and gave him the Enterprise ANYWAY; the PREVIOUS Captain knew about it, and by default encouraged it because he didn't stop it. Either way this goes, the Navy loses and this Sailor loses. The only win is the Gay/Lesbian Agenda.
Having said that, if it were me, I'd have been more careful of the 'salty' language and used more innuendo rather than being overtly sexual. "What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas" does not apply at that rank, unfortunately.
It's a shame that we develop real Warriors (which this guy is) to be agressive, brave, bold, audacious and decisive (and we the taxpayer spent MILLIONS on this guy): We NEED these kind of exceptional men and women to protect our shores yet we'd trash all that in the name of political correctness. This WARSHIP was TEN DAYS from deployment - for those who don't understand, a change in command this late in the game undoubtedly effects the ship and crew. Not a smart idea.
I am so glad my retirement certificate is signed George W. Bush and not Barak Hussein Obama.
"Dogs and Soldiers keep off the Grass"