As for the woman I'm pursuing... I don't know. I just found out from a coworker of hers she might not be looking for what I'm looking for
Ben,
Never expect something to happen. It only will when you aren't looking for it. I think others will back me up on this. Don't go into it thinking anything other than you are going to have a good time. It takes all of the pressure off of you and her. Keep your eyes open, but don't go into it thinking "This is the girl I'm going to marry, have a relationship with, or what ever." You will both know if it can go to the next level.