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So I have a friend, whos been a friend of mine since i was about 14 years old. At least, I thought he was a friend. Last year when he moved, I helped him move, helped him finish his garage, let him use my truck to get supplies to finish his basement, helped him finish his basement, etc...
Now, I've come to find out through people we both know that he has been telling everyone he knows that he did the basement himself, and I just helped a little bit here and there, but didnt really do much of anything. Also, I come to find out (through some of the same people) that hes talking shid about the mods I'm doing to my bike. hes been saying stuff like "I dont know why he's doing all this stuff, he rides slow anyway, and doesnt really know how to ride either."
How would you guys handle a situation like this? I mean, the obvious answer is "distance yourself from this loser" which I plan on doing. I still feel bad for him though, because he just bought this house, and his GF that he bought it with moved out on him because she caught him cheating on her. Plus, he's losing his bike because he cant afford the payments on it. he's also in the process of filing bankruptcy. He's doing it on his own, because he says he cant afford a lawyer, which, frankly, I dont understand, because he somehow came up with the money to buy himself a 73" television for christmas.
Any suggestions on how to deal with "friends" like this besides distancing myself?
Now, I've come to find out through people we both know that he has been telling everyone he knows that he did the basement himself, and I just helped a little bit here and there, but didnt really do much of anything. Also, I come to find out (through some of the same people) that hes talking shid about the mods I'm doing to my bike. hes been saying stuff like "I dont know why he's doing all this stuff, he rides slow anyway, and doesnt really know how to ride either."
How would you guys handle a situation like this? I mean, the obvious answer is "distance yourself from this loser" which I plan on doing. I still feel bad for him though, because he just bought this house, and his GF that he bought it with moved out on him because she caught him cheating on her. Plus, he's losing his bike because he cant afford the payments on it. he's also in the process of filing bankruptcy. He's doing it on his own, because he says he cant afford a lawyer, which, frankly, I dont understand, because he somehow came up with the money to buy himself a 73" television for christmas.
Any suggestions on how to deal with "friends" like this besides distancing myself?