Ok, a plethera of questions. I know there's 3 women on here and hoping they will reply, mostly because guys are all idiots and we all know it [I'm a guy, I know]. I'm confident in what I know and have no problems relating to the better sex, but peoples perspectives on these sorts of topics are always intersting. This is mostly for entertainment value so throw in your thoughts, experiences and opinions.
1) GENERALLY, do women prefer a clean shaven face or a bearded or scruffy one? I won't taint the responses until later
2) Why do women continuously go into bars to 'meet' people [read guys] only to constantly complain about the 'type' of people they meet?? Like, duh... go to the same type of place = meet same type of people
3) If bars are just funs places to hang out, why don't women still go there after they find someone and get married? Is the whole bar thang simply mate selection and capture? I don't want to STOP dancing after I get married, especially if that was common ground when we met
4) How often do women work extra hard to be seen in everyday situations? Do you stage "chance" meetings and alter your path or direction to ensure a meeting accident? Guys do this all the time but we are not allowed to tell you about it... secret covenant thing [but no silly hats involved]
Number 4 relates to an instance this morning: I was dashing into Walgreens [yes, literally dashing] and this girl was coming out and I think I scared her in a good way. She stopped stunned for a moment, thinking I might mow her down and we locked eyes. Now in MY book, eyelock occurring for more than 1 and a half seconds signals at a minimum, a level primal physical attraction, she watched me run in the other door and I was looking right back at her thinking "Dang! Fine looking sunday morning girl" but forgot to look for a ring. So she was leaving and I was happy I got to admire her beauty for a couple seconds. Okay, fine. I go get my blue Gatorade, which is really just my excuse to go to that Walgreens and chit chat with the hottie at the cash register [see, how that planning bit works?] but she wasn't there this morning
. When I start getting rung up, who comes stolling back in thru the front doors of the place but the tragically beaufitul angel that I had passed a minute ago who was LEAVING! Again, she locks eyes with me and has this little smile, and she KEEPS looking at me. Then she stands behind me in line like she forgot to buy a stick of gum or something. My mind was racing like it would in any guy's and I fought back the urge to use some standard opener like "Forget something?" "This IS a great place to shop over and over at isn't it?" or "Haven't I seen you somewhere before?? Oh yeah! The entrance to this building" but I try not to get involved as I suffer from Peter Pan Syndrome to the degree of possibly never wanting a house, SUV or children which cuts down my dating potential to approximatetly 1 percent of the female population. Otherwise I would just be wasting her time and causing her confusion. Aren't I nice??
An opportunity was shoved down my throat... I consider it a miracle. Other's won't. Anyway, after I paid for my blue Gatorade, for some reason I looked down at the floor for a second... and just incase *I* had missed it, the fellow that was infront of me stepped up and pointed it out: "Excuse me, did you drop that picture?" he asked as I was bending down to pick up a wallet sized pic of a little boy. "No, that's not mine", I said looking up AGAIN locking eyes with the OH MY GOD! I just now realized she looked EXACTLY like Kirsten Dunst, Amazing, I checked IMDB.com [I'm not a dunst fan, took me a while to figure it out]! No really. I thought she looked familiar, it really could have been HER in person. Wow. okay, so I eyelocked with her again and said, "Is this yours?" holding the picture up, she didn't speak, she just shook her head 'no' slightly, still looking into my eyes, still with a slight smile that said "Come on, you freak! I came all the way back in here, with NO REASON WHATSOEVER so you could open a conversation with me! What's it gonna be???" I grabbed my Gaterade and walked out, got in my car and drove home. I realize the entire episode COULD have been completely innocent and unplanned... but still..... come on, it happens. Yes, I'm looking pretty good today, shiney black shoes, bootcut jeans and matching demin jacket, 5 oclock shadow scruff but trimmed beard fuzz, spikey gelled hair and those pointless half-shaded hollywood style sunglasses. How could she NOT look! HAHAHAHHAA
Yes, this is how guys think sometimes. Do women do that too? I know SOME have in my past. Wondering how many work at it like that?
4 questions. Spew forth your wisdoms!
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1) GENERALLY, do women prefer a clean shaven face or a bearded or scruffy one? I won't taint the responses until later
2) Why do women continuously go into bars to 'meet' people [read guys] only to constantly complain about the 'type' of people they meet?? Like, duh... go to the same type of place = meet same type of people
3) If bars are just funs places to hang out, why don't women still go there after they find someone and get married? Is the whole bar thang simply mate selection and capture? I don't want to STOP dancing after I get married, especially if that was common ground when we met
4) How often do women work extra hard to be seen in everyday situations? Do you stage "chance" meetings and alter your path or direction to ensure a meeting accident? Guys do this all the time but we are not allowed to tell you about it... secret covenant thing [but no silly hats involved]
Number 4 relates to an instance this morning: I was dashing into Walgreens [yes, literally dashing] and this girl was coming out and I think I scared her in a good way. She stopped stunned for a moment, thinking I might mow her down and we locked eyes. Now in MY book, eyelock occurring for more than 1 and a half seconds signals at a minimum, a level primal physical attraction, she watched me run in the other door and I was looking right back at her thinking "Dang! Fine looking sunday morning girl" but forgot to look for a ring. So she was leaving and I was happy I got to admire her beauty for a couple seconds. Okay, fine. I go get my blue Gatorade, which is really just my excuse to go to that Walgreens and chit chat with the hottie at the cash register [see, how that planning bit works?] but she wasn't there this morning
Yes, this is how guys think sometimes. Do women do that too? I know SOME have in my past. Wondering how many work at it like that?
4 questions. Spew forth your wisdoms!
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