I've had 3 buldging discs in my lower back, and 2 vertebret in my upper that slip since 09.
My discs are buldging up and down into my vertebret (not out the sides)as the bone has deteriated.
Surgeory has been postponed until if can no longer walk. My only option is holes drilled in the vertebret and a balloon inserted. Then a concrete like substance injected. Dr. has said it's a last resort and that there is no other fix.
My threshold for pain has been pushed past the limit and pain pills do not work(I'm allergic to morphine).
I've been down twice and literally could not get back up. I also have a little girl who's almost 2. Lifting her is, well, you know. Personally I put my faith in GOD and live life one day at a time.
I've been on bikes since I was 12(I'm 35 now). I injured my back a year after getting the busa. I've changed 5 seats, rearsets, and now have a Spiegler topclamp conversion. Much better, but not enough. Pain is a daily thing, but the lean to the bars is too much. I'm currently selling my busa to get a B-King instead, as it's more upright and personally much more comfortable. Although riding anything is uncomfortable. I've learned not to focus on the pain, and it does help some.
Sitting is uncomfortable in general.
The one thing that has literally remarkably changed my situation is a sleep number bed!
Had it for a year in September. The ability to change how soft or hard the bed is allowed me to finally sleep again. As all the pressure points where mattress springs push are now gone! I can lie down and it feels like I'm floating, almost instantly it's like someone is turning down the pain dial and I actually get some relife. Even lying down for 15 to 30 minutes makes me feel much better to go back to whatever I was doing.
I would definately recommend going to a sleep number store and trying one. They have a 60 day money back guarantee too. I WOULD NOT take anything for mine, really.
A good friend of mine is on his 5th back surgeory, and as most anyone who has had a back surgeory will tell you, it's never the same again.
Mr8ball here has also had back surgeory and can relate to you. I'm sure he'll be along.
I wish you well.