Am i loosing interest in riding?

I had been absent for riding for 2 months, when I had surgery. At my 1 week follow-up, my first question was "How long before I can ride again?". 4 months later I totalled the bike. It was a wonderful 4 months, mostly, but it was a blast. It's now been 10 months since I wrecked the Busa. My wife hasn't gotten over it yet. I have a great car, that I really love to drive. The only problem I'm really facing is that I miss riding so much, I can't put it out of my mind, and the wifey has threatened to leave me if I bring home another Busa (or any other sportbike)! (Please no smart a$$ comments about dumping the wife!) The desire definitely returns with a furry! I might have to rent a bike for the weekend, and enjoy it! Then I need a place to hide my car.
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I have also thought about selling the busa just from the fact that so many people are going down and not making it through. I dont ride as much as I used to but I do still like to ride. I have thought about being without a bike for a while and buying a house and pay off the car then find something again. I have also thought about buying a cheap stunt bike to play on in parking lots.
 
did this last year. rode only a handful of times. this year dropped $2500 in her and watch the weather station everyday. This way I know I can ride and not get wet. gotta say the love affair is back in full swing. oh yea, been riding since 1980.
 
I went without a bike for a little over 10 years until I bought my Busa last June.

I sold it for financial reasons and bought the kids a swing set with what was left over.

The fire for 2 wheels never left me. My ears would perk up every time I herd a bike. My wife made a comment that she doesn't have to worry about me cheating on her because I'm always looking at bikes.
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I would never anyway 18 years the 27th of last month and counting Just funny hearing it.

I do have occasions when I just don't feel like it and take the cage instead. When I do get back on the Busa it's !!OH YES BABY!! I missed you.

I commute with mine 4 days a week to work until it's time to put her away for the winter. I never get tired of riding the same highway to and from work. About 18 miles each way and practically deserted in the early AM when I'm cruising it. Coming home is a different story but much easier with a bike than a cage).

I would say like a few others have said in this thread if it's not a financial burden just let it sit. If after a few months or more you still feel the same way then maybe it's time to sell without any doubts. Give it some thought first without making any rash decisions. If you are doubting yourself then it's not the right thing to do. If on the other hand you are comfortable making the decision then it is the right decision.
 
Another thought.

I don't know how old you guys are (WWJD & Revlis) or what your personal situations are, but there's a lot to consider if you have responsibilities that aren't conducive to riding a motorcycle.

Family is the big one.

I rode before I had kids. Stopped when I had them (kids need their dad) and started again when the last of them were driving.

Two of my kids are adults now, out on their own. One still at home, but on the starting blocks. It's different now.

At my age, some call it a "mid-life crisis", but I don't see the crisis in it at all. I was just putting off doing what I had wanted to do all along until it was reasonable for me to do so. And... I'm thankful that I've maintained myself well enough in the meantime to still enjoy it to the fullest.

Still, the decision...vette....busa...vette...busa

I'm giddy with indecision!
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Interesting post for sure.

I think Rev hit the nail on the head with his first post. It's about the FUN...the freedom of actually being out there. Exploring, discovering, and at times, reminiscing. It's fun, yes...but to add to his point, for me, riding is much deeper than that. Yeah, sure you can go romping and discovering in your car...but there's just something different about going someplace new when you're on the bike. WWJD's notion of doing more sport-touring sounds like an absolutley delightful plan.

For myself, I was out two years (I know, I know...not much) from riding. Almost everyday was a perfect day to ride...and it killed me inside. Every time I heard a bike, my head would immediately turn to source out the direction from where it was coming from. I could almost flawlessly tell what the general size of the bike before I ever saw it. I could identify what bike it was almost on sound alone.

All that time, I was watching, hoping, praying....that I'd get back on two wheels. Yeah, I saw friends crash and friends die. Visited more of them than I would have liked to when they were in the hospital. But all the while, I was still hoping I could get back on the bike and relive what I had been missing out on for so long. Not so much the freedom of being out in the open air an all that...but moreso the freedom of mind. The peace of mind that I was able to achieve through riding.

My brain most of the time runs 100 miles per minute. I mean everything is goind on at once. I remember songs, things people said to me, things that happened to me, things that happened to my friends, stupid things I've done, etc. Never a quiet moment, much to my dismay. I've tried relaxing an meditating, but that just doesn't seem to work.

The first time I rode on out on the bike, it was bliss. Nothing filtering in from my mind...just the sound of the engine and the sound of the wind. For the first time in my life, my mind was blank...completely devoid of all the things that I had been trying so hard to either control or get rid of. Can you imagine how I felt when I'm kneeling down at church and then for some odd reason or another, some stupid song busts into my head? Not only do I have a hard time concentrating on what I should be there for, but I also have a hard time getting rid of the song.

There's always some kinda noise going on in my head. In order to get rid of one noise, I have to replace it with another. Which is exactly what the bike did for me. Now, there were no more memories of regretful things I had done or said...no more of the maddening ruckus of jumbled memories and such that I had been fighting for so long.

For the first time, I had found peace of mind. My mind gone and lost in the song of the Busa's 1300 cc's...totally preoccupied with everything else around me. The sound of cars behind, beside and in front of me...the smooth mechanical melody of a well-running engine....the wind rushing through and around my helmet...the wind hitting my body. As if that wasn't enough, my mind was also tasked with other functions: The feedback of the bike...the flow of the bike's weight through and around curves...the sensations the tires relayed back to me about the conditions of the road...the engine's response to my throttle hand...shifting, braking, searching, analyzing...all within the span of a few seconds.

At this point, I can only assume that I'm preaching to the choir. You all know about the tasks invovled with riding, but how many of you have actually taken the time to really see what it is that you're doing? It's like eating...yeah, every day we feedourselves for nourishment, but how often to we take the time to really taste what it is we are feeding ourselves with? When was the last time you allowed yourself to be in such a state of awareness that you could taste almost every ingredient in what you were eating? For example: when was the last time you allowed yourself to taste the salt in the cereal that sits in your bowl? Sure, you've had this cereal many times before, but when was the last time you truly allowed yourself to taste it?

For me, that's one of the things that riding brought out for me. Every sensation is almost like a rediscovery. Sure, you can hammer the throttle and blast down the road at triple digit speeds...yeah, you can lean like you're the next VRoss down in the canyons. If that's what motorcycling is to you, then that's all well and good...that is, afterall, your choice.

For myself, however...it's much more than that. It's somewhat paradoxical...but it's true. In losing myself in all the little tasks that it takes to be an aware and a passive-aggressive rider, I free my mind of all clutter and noise. What my soul has yearned for...what it has needed...for the longest time, it has now achieved through sensory overload.

In having nothing, I gain everything...and it is in being nothing that I come to be relieved.



Just my thoughts, at any rate.
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Yeah, Pac...I see what you saying...but, seems to me this summers heat is somewhat different from last year...I'm saying its much stronger, that I feel that way...guess I'm getting older, and to me, wearing gear is just too much hassle...and doing 100+ miles per hour, isn't fun any more...summer just got started now...and I'm about to give up riding for awhile...until cools off...and I'll see what I really want after that...
like Rev said, I grab more and more car keys than bike keys...as soon as I look at the bike keys? the only thing come around my mind is a word "pain" heat from weather and motor...I only see not much fun but pain...
Maybe, I'll think differently, when the fall season cools this heats off some...who knows, but for now? don't see any joys at all...  
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Maybe by modding the bike so much and basicly making the bike the one thing (besides a wife/girl) in life you think about non-stop... and by spending so much time talking about it online...and by buying so much new gear... and by spending time with other bikers at a track... just got you burned out and you need something new.

I don't think I'll be burned out anytime soon because I don't "think" about it. I'm over the initial thrill. Now the bike is just there for me to ride like some car. I would rather ride the bike simply because it looks better than my car and it's faster... and is a gas saver. Coming to this forum and seeing so many talk about wrecks, etc is also getting to me. Before with my Katana I never went online at all to see about the bike or ever talked to anyone about riding... I just rode it. I think I'll just stick to the new owners forum, because even a year from now i'll still be considered a new busa owner... and that section of the forum is less about wrecks, mods, track talk, and so on... and I don't want to think about crashing while riding. I can't afford riding gear so I ride in what I've got and try to stay as safe as possible. If I had a wife I loved and children and a Corvette... I wouldn't even consider riding a motorcycle. But I'm single with a Ford Escort... so I'm on my busa as much as possible.
 
Hey Greg! I find myself thinking the same thing. I sold my Busa a couple months ago and thought I was going to die when I seen it being pulled away on a trailer. Here it is, going on 2 months and I am really not missing her at all. I've looked at a couple new bikes but I don't think I could commit myself to wanting another at this time. I think I am going through a "phase" myself.
 
I also have a convertable along with the Busa... 01 Sebring... love to just ride with the top down and radio on. I try to keep equal times between the Sebring and "My Baby" but if the Wife wants to join me the Sebring wins everytime. I am not at the point of giving up "My Baby" but I am looking to get a cruiser so the Wife will join me on rides a little more and then I feel the Sebring will see less action than the Busa...
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Hey Greg! I find myself thinking the same thing. I sold my Busa a couple months ago and thought I was going to die when I seen it being pulled away on a trailer. Here it is, going on 2 months and I am really not missing her at all. I've looked at a couple new bikes but I don't think I could commit myself to wanting another at this time. I think I am going through a "phase" myself.
See is the thing. Talking to the wife last night I said "If I sold the Busa I'd be down at the shop looking at new ones the next day." But what the hell kind of sense does that make? I mean I could go buy a GSXR1000 or something thinking that is what I am after but then I'd just end up wishing I still had the bigger more comfortable bike.

I think that might be part of the problem though, all the bikes accept for the Blackbird were comfortable to me, they fit me, everything was natural to them and I was one with the bike, I may get tired now and then but I never had to think about riding. It was all natural. The Busa and I get along fine, I enjoy the power, and the handling, but there allways seems to be something keeping me from enjoying the ride as much as everyone else seems to. I find myself 200 miles from home wishing I had a better way to get back. I find myself looking forward to getting off the bike, and that my friends is really damn strange... I dunno, I think I am going to go test ride a few new bikes. I'm going to go test ride a Triumph ST, Maybe the BMW K1200S and see what I think. Both are supposed to be more comfortable... We'll See.

Part of me says there is no point in getting a different bike, that there is nothing but dissapointment waiting, in a grass is allways greener kind of way. How can I got to a bike that weighs the same as the Busa with 50 less HP? Makes no sense. But who knows.

I think I am going to go for a long ride, put Stabil in the Tank when I get back put her up on the stands, plug in the battery tender and see where I am at then... I figure it's in mint condition, SE all Black, might as well hang on to it because there isn't a better bike out there anywhere. Not in terms of being a real street bike...
 
I went a long time w/ out a bike after a bad accident in 1987. It was good to take a break. It gave me time to get my family & career going. When I did start riding again I felt a new appreciation for it. I could'nt wait to get back on a racetrack. There is no better rush to me than dragging a knee through a nice corner.

Is it my 1st choice for entertainment...not if I can go Scuba diving, but no place to dive in Dallas.
But that's why I am moving to an island in 6 years when our son graduates.

Motorcycles are my Wife's passion. She would ride everyday if she could. She has been riding for 4 years & has a CBR F4i - loves it. Before she started riding we played golf - alot. I have not played in 2 years. Yes I miss it, but I would rather spend time w/ her doing something we both love.

Don't sell the bike - put her up for awhile. You may gain a new appreciation for her.
 
You're getting old and you're starting to enjoy the creature comforts more.

Who doesn't like sitting in a comfy chair at high speeds while chatting to the wifey and playing with the surround sound?
 
You're getting old and you're starting to enjoy the creature comforts more.

Who doesn't like sitting in a comfy chair at high speeds while chatting to the wifey and playing with the surround sound?
Oh Damn... Ya know I'm afraid you might have a point... Creature Comforts.

This would be the same reason that the wife and I spent a sunny Sunday Shopping for Furniture instead of riding...

I didn't think I was getting old yet but I also found a new appreciation of golf recently... (Scary I know)
 
WOw pac, that was really well stated. I agree too, riding is excellent therapy for the exact reasons you so eliquently conveyed. As far as the world-induced "ADD" you mention, I hope you don't feel at fault for that, or inferior in any way. We are ALL going through that kind of thing with the pace of the world today and NO ONE I know of is stepping up to say it like it is: we are trying to do too much. That can be mental, physical, and/or schedulewise. We only have two arms, two legs, two eyes, two ears etc, not 16. We are not designed to do more than one thing at a time, we are not "hyper threading" or able to truly "multitask"... yet we subject ourselves to attempting it, frustratingly, on a daily basis. So much so, we now manufacture drugs to realign things [what's wrong with just slowing down?] and spend BILLIONS on therapy every year. I have the same condition you described exactly. And I know others do too but don't few fess up because they think it will make them seem bad or something. Bullcrap! Anywho, how you describe riding is EXACTLY another point I love about it: I think of nothing else except staying alive, the feel, the full activity. It's fully mentally consuming, yet not overloading like many other things are. my 2 cents.

I doubt I will ever be bikeless, and if Rev moves on, I say more power to him enjoying his life in whatever capacity he desires. But I bet he'll miss it ;)

I kinda agree with the creature comforts part too, but I still fight against that and enjoy putting on full gear jsut to putz around a little bit.

I can't make it out of town this weekend like I wanted to but, I'm thinking about that open road again - finding that two laner with no telephone poles on a bright suny day... heading some direction but not needing directions... packing a bag on the bike for an overnighter or two... maybe buy a little tent

...but if I take a little break now and again, I won't feel like I have lost something. It's always in there. I always enjoy it - except when I'm sick.

Maybe it was just the Ny-Quil talking.

Rev, I know where you are at man. Keep the bike, sell the bike, there's no wrong answer as you know. Let us know how the thought process goes for you.

It's great reading everyone's inner thoughts and feelings about riding. I miss the deep multi-sided conversations we used to have around here - THIS life's journey is about people, and thoughts and feelings are what we are to the core. Sorry to get all gooey here - sometimes riding isn't the ONLY therapy available ;)



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I didn't think I was getting old yet but I also found a new appreciation of golf recently...  (Scary I know)

That's a challenge for me.. Before the Hayabusa came into my life, I actually had a decent golf game....

Now, my swing looks like I'm chopping wood
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There was a time when I had a decent short game and could find fairways..  I'm probably a 23 handicap now!!!  

However.. when I get home and put on my helmet and throw my leg over my Busa, all my problems seem to fade away..
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