I have been married for just over a year now and have a baby on the way, and thing seem good. I have had some suspisons about my wife however. She used to go out all the time while i stayed at home and worked on my race ATV. It was kinda like an agreement I do what i want and she can go out with her friends.
Well a while back I started getting a weird feeling about who she was hanging out with, her girl friends all had cars and when she came home late one night it was a truck that dropped her off. I asked her about it and she said it was another friend I didnt know and gave a girls name. This happened a couple more times and was about 7 months ago, same time the baby was conceived. After which time she stopped going out all together so i just put it behind me.
So I got home yesterday and she was all dressed up and told me her friend was gonn come pick her up to go look at baby clothes in town and would be back late so dont wait up since I have to work in the morning. I thought this was strange for her to say. Anyway after putting my daughter to bed I went out to my storage building to start tearing my ATV down for a rebulid, and lost track of time. I head a truck pull into the driveway, and i had left the storage door closed most of the way due to it being cold so I shut my light off and knelt down behind the fender of my ATV so i could see out. I could see it was a guy in the truck and she leaned over and kissed him before she got out and went inside.
I was shocked, I just sat back against the wall in the dark and stared at my ATV thinking. There was a crack of light shining in right on the back of the engine case and I could see oil dripping on it, which was coming from the rear shock. Just great.
So I have no Idea what to do now, obviously i cant leave things they way they are but if I bring it up to my wife it's gonna cause a huge fight and stress her out making things bad on the baby. Should I wait to confront her about it untill after the baby is born or just do it now? Or should I be sneaky and just order a brand new performance shock without her knowing and have it sent to a friends house?
Well a while back I started getting a weird feeling about who she was hanging out with, her girl friends all had cars and when she came home late one night it was a truck that dropped her off. I asked her about it and she said it was another friend I didnt know and gave a girls name. This happened a couple more times and was about 7 months ago, same time the baby was conceived. After which time she stopped going out all together so i just put it behind me.
So I got home yesterday and she was all dressed up and told me her friend was gonn come pick her up to go look at baby clothes in town and would be back late so dont wait up since I have to work in the morning. I thought this was strange for her to say. Anyway after putting my daughter to bed I went out to my storage building to start tearing my ATV down for a rebulid, and lost track of time. I head a truck pull into the driveway, and i had left the storage door closed most of the way due to it being cold so I shut my light off and knelt down behind the fender of my ATV so i could see out. I could see it was a guy in the truck and she leaned over and kissed him before she got out and went inside.
I was shocked, I just sat back against the wall in the dark and stared at my ATV thinking. There was a crack of light shining in right on the back of the engine case and I could see oil dripping on it, which was coming from the rear shock. Just great.
So I have no Idea what to do now, obviously i cant leave things they way they are but if I bring it up to my wife it's gonna cause a huge fight and stress her out making things bad on the baby. Should I wait to confront her about it untill after the baby is born or just do it now? Or should I be sneaky and just order a brand new performance shock without her knowing and have it sent to a friends house?
