Sounds about right to me....maybe a TAD slow...My old T3 would start spooling around 4000 but really wasn't making much of anything until 5000, finally at 6000 it would be making its full 10 lbs.
What spring is in your wastegate? Lighter the spring, softer the spool. A 10lb spring will spool much faster then an 8lb, even before the point that its making a full 10lbs of boost.....ofcourse the problem with a heavier spring is you will have a higher peak boost and anything over 8-9lbs is a no no on pump gas.
I think if yours is making some pretty decent boost by 5k, say 5-6lbs at least, you are in the ball park. I mean hell are you doing roll ons from 3000 rpms? BUT you won't like that 18/38 gearing......its gonna feel like it takes forever to pull then.