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Keep your head up... Do the things in life that make YOU happy...
get out and enjoy your off time... I know when last we spoke and rode together you told me your work schedule was crazy...

Let me know if you moved closer to NYC.. When your able to we can hook up again and ride... If ya want stop in for a beer and some conversation if ya like..


Shean.

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You'll be alright, it gets depressing for the first few months until you get your head straight.. Then, you find yourself at the park or beach walking your dog and before you know it your balls deep in something new..
Couldn't have said it better, myself.

Project, no one will ever accuse you of being 'delicate'.

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On the positive side, look at all you have learned. The next time you do it, you'll apply that and find a better fit. In the mean time, you are now able to sample and test all you want.
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The wife and I will be at Pocono this weekend for the race and we are looking for a ride on Saturday, interested? I may also have an extra ticket (or three) for the race but i wont know until the last second, PM ur number if you would like me to call you if they are available. You would be sitting with people my wife works with and not us. We will be in the infield.

Keep your head up and make the most of what you got, everyday. It will get better, been there and feel for ya!

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sorry...hang in there...time heals.

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yep i know how it is, except i just went to kansas city and picked up a new one when i got back from iraq. I can't do it alone when I have kids to take care of and it comes down to either getting the boot from the army or find help, which i did. She is truely a blessing from god. Never thought I would find one like her. But mom tried to scare her away only thing that happen with that was she dont like my mom very much lol

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Try to reconnect with the things you like to do. A little selfish time helps. Take care and as BlueHaya says, time heals.

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I am in the same boat right now it is hard but things get better and start diggen in something new it will help...

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It is said that the fastest way to get over an old flame is New Pu$$y.
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ahh projekt, put so eloquently
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Spelled with dollar signs...nice double entendre....certainly the truth

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You will learn to be "by yourself" quick enough...   I feel for ya man...  been there done that and nothing about it is easy..

You end up at walmart buying stuff  you never imagined (toilet scrubbers, towels, bathroom sets, dishes and the list goes on) Every item brings back memories good and bad...

If the split up is amicable, then maybe she can help you set up housekeeping at the new place..  (may or may not be a good idea, but could help the adjustment)

If it is any consolation... you are still welcome here
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wisdom in old age, right there.
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I'm sorry this is happening to you man. Most of us have been there done that.

The only comfort I can give you is, "it gets better".

UncleSteve

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Like the others I have the T-shirt.

One of the low times in my life.... very low.

Not to bore you and sell my soul here but,

I made a bad choice marrying the ***** (first wife)

I was in patrol school and she was getting serviced while I was away at the academy.


Needless to say things got ugly.

I just moved on and pushed through it. Now I have the greatest woman in the world. 19 years ago we met. Married two years later... I was a little gun shy about another marriage, anniversary in two days. 17 years and better all the time. She is a doll. Smart to!!!
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Hang in there, if you can make it work great... if not move on.......plenty of friends here on the org to help you through...

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Hang in there.

Sunday (8/3/08) is the monthly bike meet in Ephrata, PA. Wraps up about 11 am, but for $8 you can grab breakfast and check out hundreds of bikes. I may go, but I'll be coming from Center City. Ephrata Motorcycle Event
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