Need a pick me up!

[Jet Li]

Man, Sled, I feel for you Bro. I was married 10 years when my wife left me. Totally blind sided. Said I was never around. She was right. I though earning money and giving her the things she wanted was the right thing, but she found someone else and that is that.
Do you have family up there in Minnesota? Try to stay around friends and family during the holiday. Do anything but sit around alone in your house. Things will slowly get better. Just get out the BUSA, Suzi still loves ya

The gym is excellent idea, healthy way to deal with the blues!
Keep the faith Bro.

[oldhat]

wow...thanks all. I'm pretty much balling my eyes out with all the kids words you have to give. And yes, it was blindsided. She is leaving me for her ex-husband. Guess that what happens to someone who travels once a week during the month. No family here and cant afford to travel. Oh well. Guess I'll just get drunk as #### and not remember my X-mas. As many of you know, I'm pretty much known for being upbeat and funny. Not now. Life sucks!

[MN72Busa]

Sled, man sorry to hear about your troubles. If ya want, drop me a pm - I have a week off starting Thursday, We could go to the German house over N.E. mpls & get drunk (I get some killer deals there) - and nice scenery...Ahemmm...anyhow, I really feel for ya man - sorry. Keep your cool & play your hand smart as you know these things can get sorta ugly real quick.

[oldhat]

valium...PM sent. cant talk now.....you;ll see it in the PM..have my girls right now and they are wondering what the hell is going on and why their dad is a crying wreck right now.

[oldhat]

oh...and thanks man! want to get together.

[oldhat]

hey Charles....I made D AMN sure that the dog comes with me!!! My golden has been my best buddy the last few days!!!

[Jet Li]

Definately keep your K-9, Bro!

[Wag]

Sucks, man. Hope you can get through, over, under, somehow past all this intact.

Stay tough.

--Wag--

[sageronin]

Hang tough Bro ... hour by hour, day by day ... time will heal you ... stay strong!

[jwcfbd]

sorry to hear the bad news.

[GSXRFANN]

I feel for you bro!!! I have been there. My ex left me for my (what I thought) was my best friend. It hurt like hell and still hurts at times. You never completely get over it, but you can get over HER!!! Just try to do something...ANYTHING to stay occupied, and remember your kids!! They are the best thing in the world!!! And you have your pooch!! You also have people here on the org that care and are ready to listen. Take the kids and go on a short vacation even if it is just to the next city for a weekend just to get a change of scenery. Just try and not let it get you down too much. It does get a little easier with each passing day.
I know that you don't know me, but if you need to talk or vent just shoot me a pm!!!! I will do what ever I can for ya bro!!!!

[adrenaline junkey]

sorry to hear just try and stay busy. It will be tuff for a while but then will get better each day then one day it will be just another memory

[BA BUSA]

Sorry to hear the bad news bro....you have always got us here at .ORG

[SAMBUSA]

Sorry to hear that bro. Been there. But just think - Single and a Busa rider. The chicks will flock to you. On a serious note. When I was going thru my situation I spent all of my time showing my baby girl how important she was to me. Lots of luck.

[gstspeedster]

I feel for you sled, Us good guys always come in last. It seems the better you treat them the harder you get slammed. I've been single for going on 10yrs now after getting totally shut down by my ex. So just keep yourself busy, love your girls and family, and play with your pup!! Keep your chin up. I does get better with time..

[Section 8]

so thats what I got as an early Xmas present on Sunday.

Sucks to be me. Go home, give your spouse a hug and tell them that when you said do or die, health and sickness that you meant it. God....Xmas is gonna suck this year!!!!!

Anyone else ever spend Chirstmas alone? How'd you handle it??

Don't feel to bad. Got off work over here in Iraq 4 days ago and my wife told me the same thing. Now it sucks because she moved out of our apartment and closed to lease, now I gotta find a place to live

. Atleast I'll have my Busa to keep me company.

[Rocketman]

I am truly sorry for ya sled... This is a good time of year for serious spiritual reflection. There is happiness out there and your kids are counting on you to help them find that happiness.

You have a lot of people that are here to listen and help.

God bless you and your family.



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[VaBusa]

so thats what I got as an early Xmas present on Sunday.

Sucks to be me.  Go home, give your spouse a hug and tell them that when you said do or die, health and sickness that you meant it.  God....Xmas is gonna suck this year!!!!!

Anyone else ever spend Chirstmas alone?  How'd you handle it??

Don't feel to bad.  Got off work over here in Iraq 4 days ago and my wife told me the same thing.   Now it sucks because she moved out of our apartment and closed to lease, now I gotta find a place to live

.  Atleast I'll have my Busa to keep me company.

Good grief! Is it going around?

I'm so sorry...

I don't get these "easy ways out" nowadays...whatever happened to people working things out and living a long life together?

Hang in there...you know you guys have friends here to vent to, okay?

[ks-waterbug]

Very Sorry to hear this guys...... There really is nothing I can say or do to change how this affects you. But, I can say I'm here if you just need someone to talk with to pass the time or to vent! Ks.......

[busavas]

Hey sledhead, how are you doing? Although I don't know you, I know what your going through. Hang in there and don't wuss out on yourself by getting drunk. Be strong, hang out with close freinds and family. If want to hear a really sad story PM me, it might make you feel better to know what I went through.