Jessup, I'm familiar with Fiddlers Green, all too often in times like this I tend to forget all that I've learned. Reading the replies over and over I bring back a part of me I have lost touch with, the seemingly cold side. What I mean is, when it is someone you dont know, its not personal, it saddens you surely, but not to the same extent. When it is personal, you tend to lose focus of how to cope, the ability to look at the "brigher side" and know that he is in true peace now etc.. I guess thats why we all need someone, someone to talk to, to listen and bring us back to the rational side of life. Thanks guys.
