100% correct. Never re-use bearings that have been drifted out.If you take a bearing out it is done and you should use new ones.
I wouldn't recommend anti-sieze on your bearing race. The last thing you want is a slippery surface on a pressed fit. The two surfaces are made to fit tight so the race has no chance of any movement throughout it's life. When a bearing begins to wear out, many times they begin to drag creating friction by binding. If there is anti-sieze between the bearing's race and the hub, it can easily spin inside the hub and ruin your wheel.
Mine were really tight in there.
I almost had to destroy them to get them out.
I don't know about others but there is no chance of them spinning on mine, they were in way too tight.
Even with the lube of the anti seize they were reallly hard to get back in.
I only use a small dab of the anti seize, to stop the different metals from corroding and seizing them in place.
You are right, if they are in there loose, don't use the antiseize.
The race is tight in the hub by design. With the use of a proper puller, they come out with ease.
I hear that!
But if I had a dollar for everything that "should be" or "should work" and didn't, I would be a very rich man.