Well, in reference to the chat room, I HAD one up for you guys. I think you are referencing that when you say, "At least the guy tried..." Not a guy, though, sweetie. S'okay... I know you meant the best.
All of my sites are pornographic in nature. They pay their bills, whereas non-porn sites have a difficult time making money. As such, I have bandwidth to burn, which is great, since a good Javachat can take alot of it.
Do you want me to create another chat room for you guys? Chase seemed to feel that it wouldn't get used much and that it'd be a waste. I offered to make him one on his own site, but he seemed less than interesed. Besides, I don't think that he needs me for that... He is plenty capable of doing it all by himself. Still, I wondered why he wouldn't want one anyway, even if nobody used it. Why not have it avaliable anyway for quick flaming (hahahah!!)
I fear that he may not want to make it available since his server may already be close to maxxing it's resources... I know that he runs several sites from the same server.
Thus, like I said, I can donate the bandwidth and the space, but yes, it would be on a server that also has adult sites on it, and yes, that would be required to pay the bills. Sorry if it makes you feel like you are being "scammed" somehow. I could create the room such that it had no references to anything but bikes on it... (no pics at all).
Let me know.