Need GF help...

yamahor

DEAD MAN WALKING
Donating Member
Registered
No, not what you're looking for Projekt, I have no fun drama for you. :lol:

So, I'm a creative guy, but when it comes to romance, I can't really think of anything... So, I am commissioning my .org family to help with ideas. I'm out of ideas except for rides on the bike on the parkway and picnics, and with winter here, those options are out... I know some of yall got ideas (Ladies, feel free to give me ideas of what you always wanted a guy to do for you), so help a brother out, and post em up for me. :)
 
Offer to COOK dinner instead of going out to a fancy restaurant.
Women go crazy over that kind of stuff.
 
Take her skydiving - the experience (and since you were with her, YOU) will be indelibly printed on her memory for the rest of her life :thumbsup:
 
Weekend at a Festival, Hay ride with late dinner, haunted house (if she is into that sort of thing). Cute little Bed and Breakfast package (dinner, room, horse drawn carriage ride, spa treatment....) Christmas tree shopping or hunting (with a thermos of hot chocolate and a couple slices of pumpkin bread).

Cheap dates are usually the better ones anyway. You try to do too much it comes off fake. Be yourself then you know she will love you for YOU.

Good luck!!!!!! :thumbsup:
 
No, not what you're looking for Projekt, I have no fun drama for you. :lol:

So, I'm a creative guy, but when it comes to romance, I can't really think of anything... So, I am commissioning my .org family to help with ideas. I'm out of ideas except for rides on the bike on the parkway and picnics, and with winter here, those options are out... I know some of yall got ideas (Ladies, feel free to give me ideas of what you always wanted a guy to do for you), so help a brother out, and post em up for me. :)

These worked well for me:

1. long white satin path covered in rose pedals from apartment leading up to opened cardoor

2. tell her you want to grab a quick bite like at Subway or something, then go to fancy [or expensive] restraunt where you already made reservations

3. tell her you are taking her to a "show", then stop at a park someplace with a great view of the sunset from your blanket

4. pack some smooth jazz CDs, ice, wine glasses and a bottle of whatever in the backseat, and travel to the top floor of a parking garage right in the middle of downtown, under the stars and building lights... pop the cork and put the CD in and snuggle [read: makeout]

5. show up, don't talk or answer any questions, stare intensely into her eyes, take her in your arms, and start kissing her, and DON'T STOP!

6. cook for her

7. send a card in the MAIL, with a hand written sweet something in it - NOT an email

8. read "Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus" together

9. cook for her

10. randomly stop the car in large empty parking lots, whenever a good slow dance song comes on, crank it up, open the doors and dance with her right there
 
Find out what she likes the most and learn to do it without her knowing then surprise her with your talent.

My wife loves to Kayak and one day I went and learned how to Eskimo Roll and took her to a lake and showed her I could do it. She was so impressed she has stayed with me for 24+ years.

Another lesson I have learned and not practiced enough, Always speak to her as if her mother was standing next to you, this will save a lot of arguments down the road. Trust me on that one.

Bubba
 
Pics of the girl friend would help :whistle: just to know what she likes of course :poke: a pic is worth a thousand words..:laugh:


Does she like the cold or prefer the summer heat an beach activities???


Maybe get her out of the cold for a break from it..


Atlantis - Bahamas Vacation Specials: Atlantis Resort & Casino Paradise Island Bahamas BS Luxury Resorts Spas Family Romantic Couples Getaways Vacations Trips Packages

Ok, just for you... However, the weekend getaway stuff won't work till we"re married. We're trying to stay virgins till marriage. However, I am getting good ideas. Thanks guys and gals!


By the way, Debbie's the one on the left. :whistle:

me and Deb.jpg
 
Ok, just for you... However, the weekend getaway stuff won't work till we"re married. We're trying to stay virgins till marriage. However, I am getting good ideas. Thanks guys and gals!


By the way, Debbie's the one on the left. :whistle:

Just this night our second daughter's B'friend came to our house and asked for her hand in marriage, this was very refreshing to know that a young man would actually do this. It was commonplace back in the day, but now it is very rare. He and my daughter are also V's and saving the day for their wedding night. I am very proud of both of them and gladly gave my blessings to them. I also offered the ladder so they could elope and save me a ton of money.:laugh:

Remember this, LOVE IS A VERB! an action word that must be worked on. And marriage is a choice that you make for life and commit to.
Just a little of my two cents after 25 years with the woman that still gives me chill bumps when she touches me.
Bubba
 
Back
Top