Yes we are all doing fine.
I feel we were blessed in the fact that she hadnt been doing well for over a year so personally it allowed me time to come to terms with her death over a year.
for me this was much better than losing a parent at the snap of a finger and getting an unexpected phone call.
The kids are doing fine. we are all fine. Thanks for asking
Yes, the drugs were a blessing also. I think they helped her have as much of a pain free exit from this world as could be expected. It can't be very pleasent haveing cascading organ failure to the point where it is laboring to breath and then you just stop. All while still concious for the most part. Even up to about 30 minutes before she passed she seemed coherant of her surroundings, just unable to verbalize anything. makes you wonder what their last thoughts were.