Boy oh boy, have we got drama!!
With nothing but good intentions here:
- This is a great place, full of great people. There are some jerks, I'm one on occasion if provoked.
- This is NOT a "public", Constitutionally-protected board, it is privately owned and run. You do not have rights here. Think of it as being a guest in someone's house for whom you have the deepest respect, and do not wish to offend because they have a great deal of character and integrity. You don't do what you HAVE to when you're there, you do what is BEST and if there is a problem with someone else in the house you take it outside. That starts with the PM process, and can progress through phone calls to face-to-face meeting if mutually agreeable. This is NOT a place for internet tough guys, or person-to-person tough guys. There are plenty of the toughest on here, but that's not the point, is it? If anything, it's a verbal version of this-
- Judging by the title of this post it seems obvious that you expected controversy and drama when you posted it. If pot-stirring is something you enjoy and make a habit of you should REALLY go somewhere else. If that wasn't your intention here and you don't plan to make a habit of it then by all means stay and ride this out, possibly mend some bridges and enjoy all this place has to offer. That being said, posting this was NOT a Dale Carnegie level idea... For what it's worth, if I were you I would forget this post existed, not reply or defend further and let it sink to the bottom and go away and be forgotten. I really don't think it is accomplishing anything good.
- I hope this all blows over, and you stick around and enjoy the .org. Variety is the spice of life, no? Just remember that you are a guest here, and deal with issues on a one-to-one basis, taking the whole place to task will never end well...
Enough of this!! It's 70 degrees outside, I'm gonna do what this place was designed to support and go RIDE this awesome beast!!