I would buy 50 acres as close to town as I could get. I'd have a 12' concrete wall built around the entire property. There would be camera at the gate with a keypad but NO call button. If you had the code, you're ok to be there if not then so sad for you. I'd build a modest sized house ~3000 sqft that is the second floor, the first floor would be a garage, fully equipped. I would take a 6 month cruise with my wonderful lady. I would choose one charity a year and donate my time, money and effort to improving that charity.