What these guys said....BDE GenIII's are pretty good stuff. I've also heard about Muzzy's, Big Bird (HMF), Devil, V&H, etc.
The main thing is that you need to also buy a PCIII. My recommendation is that since you will be needing a map, you may as well do the airbox mod, PAIR valve mod, run an aftermarket airfilter (K&N or EBC[?]), knock a tooth in the front and go up 2 in the rear. Do all this and THEN have it mapped out. Save the map for last.
As for the rims...try to be more specific. Are you looking for show or are you looking for bling or are you looking for weight reduction along with class & style? All these factors come into play when you're looking for a set. I haven't looked for any just yet, so I'm not too sure. A quick google search should provide all those answers, though.
You're here for education, right? Well, now's the time to soak it up.
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