Need some advice

[ibified]

Okay, so a friend of mine is getting married in June. Trying to plan out what do do with the bachelor party situation. Normally, its a no brainer....take groom-to-be to strip club, get him blind drunk, and get him lapdances from every stripper in the place.

However, his fiancee, who I am also good friends with, has specifically asked that he NOT get taken to a strip club. Further, ive talked to the groom-to-be in private, and he doesnt mind going. I'm kinda torn here between my loyalties, and lookin for suggestions.

Thanks all.

[shawnski]

Okay, so a friend of mine is getting married in June. Trying to plan out what do do with the bachelor party situation. Normally, its a no brainer....take groom-to-be to strip club, get him blind drunk, and get him lapdances from every stripper in the place.

However, his fiancee, who I am also good friends with, has specifically asked that he NOT get taken to a strip club. Further, ive talked to the groom-to-be in private, and he doesnt mind going. I'm kinda torn here between my loyalties, and lookin for suggestions.

Thanks all.

we can start donation here (pay pal) and raise the money for your friend strip club party!

[ibified]

Personally, I like the way you think!

Too bad I don't do paypal.

[Busa Jules]

If he can't go to a strip club, she can't go out and get all giggly drunk with her girlfriends and flirt with every guy in the bar.

(One day I am going to lose what little is left of my woman card)

[Robot]

It might be unreasonable for her to ask you not to go. Is he likely to ask for something unreasonable in the future, and need her to recipricate?

Miss the party and gain something he "needs" later. Just my two cents

I've been in this scenario a couple times

[ibified]

Jules, your husband is a lucky man!

[NickSully]

Why does she not want him to go to a strip club? Has he cheated on her? Does she have issues with strippers? Is she just extremely jealous? I need more info before making a decision.

You also left off "bring the strip club to him" option. If she specifically said for him not to go to a strip club then get some private dancers to show up at a house party for him.

[Dino]

I say have a party but no strip club. Nothing good can come of it and why start the marriage either her being pizzed of him having to hide something. It is not worth it.

[badazgtp]

Why does she not want him to go to a strip club? Has he cheated on her? Does she have issues with strippers? Is she just extremely jealous? I need more info before making a decision.

You also left off "bring the strip club to him" option. If she specifically said for him not to go to a strip club then get some private dancers to show up at a house party for him.

I like the way you think. Exactly what I was going to say.

[Scar]

Remind him that 60+% of marriages end in divorce anyway...

[Robot]

Remind him that 60+% of marriages end in divorce anyway...

Glad to see your laughing, what's your secret ???

The pain, the pain

[SAMBUSA]

Pass on the strip club, get hookers's

[Robot]

Pass on the strip club, get Baaaaaaahhhhhh!'s

???

[ibified]

The main reason is that she's kinda the conservative religious type. She's also kinda set in her beliefs, etc, and thinks strippers are bad. No hes never cheated on her and I dont think he ever would.

[SnowBeltChamp]

I say F a strip club... sure its fun and all but theres much better things you could do with the money... look around anything from a sweet concert to shooting full auto guns to renting an exotic car and go racing or even something like a camping trip... I dont know I might think outside the box a little but all those options to me would be much better then a strip club...

[Mr Bogus]

what could possibly happen at a strip joint? dang... I could arrange a small private party I bet.. You drag his PW'ed butt down here to the Ft and I promise he will go home a new guy....

[sessions]

Dude strip clubs are so pointless nothing but a big freakin tease and waste of money!!! Buy him a few cases of beer and a porno flick!!! besides she will find out somehow and you and him will be in the dog house!!! just my opinion

[Lilbro]

Take her to a strip club and get pics. Then he can do what ever when ever.

[mofuggahere]

Oh in this economy you can afford to get some quality entertainment to come to the house or wherever and have a hell of a good bachelor party. But it is his right and duty, as a man leaving the field of play to go out in a blaze of glory.........the bachelor party should go on without question. The little lady will get over it and have plenty of time to make up for it once they are married.

[shawnski]

i will donate your friend money for a TABLE DANCE (only one)!