How many Chances to tell the truth

SkootRRgirl

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Don't you just hate it when you put your trust and belief into someone for so many years and they have lied to you all along and claim to be your friend? If that is what you call a friend who needs enemies. Sad thing is this person is going to eventually reap what they sow. Because they will no longer sow it upon me! Just needed to vent guys.:heart-break::brave:

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Does not sound like a good situation you have going on there.





Just dont let it tarnish your feelings towards all people, Bad apple saying you know.

Sorry someone broke your trust.

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Been there, got to cut those apples loose. Had a "friend" who would slander anyone
who had a job. Found out later that I was his favorite target. Hasta la vista, baby!

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Yeah well its really sad, I almost feel sorry for him because he lost a great friend who has spent the last 7 years trying to love him despite his flaws. That chapter is over I am tired of being played

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why am i thinking..

"He11 Hath No Fury Like A Woman Scorned"

? :whistle:

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Been there, for 11 years. No longer married to her. I hope things work out for you. :beerchug:

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We have all been there.

More than once sometimes.

Time will help you heal, but don't be afraid to be careful. There is plenty of them waiting to take their places and do it to you again.

Now go for a ride, clear your head.

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Guys you are a blessing thank God I am not alone on this one. Riding is a thought, but I don't want to kill myself over this person. I think I will just remind myself I am better than all that and deserve the best that life has to offer.

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Omg I am in the same boat you have no clue. I feel your pain lie's cheating decieving abusive *****es!!!!!

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Omg I am in the same boat you have no clue. I feel your pain lie's cheating decieving abusive *****es!!!!!

Isn't sad you put all your energy and time and love into one person, the person you thought was your best friend and true love, and they stomp on you like a piss ant. How many times are we gonna sit by and continue to allow it to happen???? I'm done with dogs.

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I am sorry for your loss and wish you the very best.

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Life goes on:beerchug:

kick him2.jpg


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Or the Busa :whistle:

kick him2.jpg


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After losing my 2 1/2 month old son to S.I.D.S. I was VERY afraid of having kids. Well 2 years later my wife of 7 years tells me she is pregnant. I don't know how, but I just knew something was off. I talked to her & talked to her, and told her I wouldn't blame her if she did find comfort with someone else, God knows I wasn't there for her (I was lost). We were best friends for 3 years, and her 2 kids already called me daddy before we started dating. Well, After her telling me "after everything we've been through, how could you think I would do that to you ?" I finally trusted her, and that we were getting ready to have another baby........BOY WAS I WRONG !! Now she says "I understand you not forgiving me (she actually thought we could work it out...yeah, right), but I miss you as a friend". Who needs friends like that .


You're not alone. Hang in there !!

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you definitely aren't alone! unfortunately, most of us have gone through this a time or two...just realize you are worth more and deserve better and walk on down the road with your head held high...i have found that being alone is much better than being with the wrong one...never settle for less than what you want!!

to answer your question of how many times i give them to tell me the truth? one and that is all! if i find they lied to me, i am gone without any questions or explanations...i will not be around someone i can not trust!!!

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thanks guys and gals, I appreciate the encouragement and support.

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Well I'm sorry for you and him cuz it sounds like he's messed up a good thing with a good person .
As others have said don't let it spoil the rest for you .
Relationships must first be built upon trust because without that nothing else matters .
Now you are free to go find the nice honest man you deserve .

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Hey SkootRgirl,

Been their and done that (RECENTLY),Time will help. That don't make it fun, but it will help.

Someday soon, I will listen to your story and you can listen to mine.

Hang in there and it will be all right, you will see. But, once again, that don't make it fun.

Keep me and the rest of the gang here updated. When I went through mine my Aunt always ask me two questions every day -

1 - Son, Have you eat today?

Eat what you want when you want.


2 - Has anyone told you that they love you today?

Well if they haven't all of us here love you.



Hang in there, I will look for you on here tomorrow.

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Move on, their not worth your time anymore. The can go sit in a hole all by themselves while you're out livin it up, you deserve it:thumbsup:
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