Hi folks, it has been a lot of years since I posted up a long message like this... I don't post a lot on the site right now but I read a lot and still do a lot of admin work so I like to think that I have a good pulse of how things are going. I am not a guy that likes to beat around the bush and hint about things most of you know that and I like to attack problems head on and deal with them when I see them however I have done a terrible job in a couple of areas over the past year and need to bring a few topics to group.
I've used the old saying "You are either part of the solution or part of the problem" for a long time and for the most part in most situations its an accurate statement.
The world is in a weird place right now where everyone thinks they are right on every topic and that is just not a possible outcome. There will always have to be some compromise, some grey area or ambiguity. I absolutely understand that members are passionate about topics and want to try to argue, prove the others wrong about a topic, be historically the most accurate or take the moral high ground but my question as always is at what cost are you willing to do this?
Is the discussion or argument on the forum that is not motorcycle related worth tearing apart the very foundation of who and what we are as a community? Is your desire to be right so great on a non-motorcycle related topic that you are willing to weaken relationships, cause members to not want to come back or are you willing to be one of those people who just don't know how to be a part of something bigger than yourself?
Sometimes you just have to know that you aren't going to change the mind of the other person on the conversation. You actually have more influence with hundreds and thousands of people when you gracefully bow out of a conversation.
My ask of you all this New Year of 2024 is simply this.... Go take a quick review of your post of 2023 and see what your highest posting topics were, if they were motorcycles, rides, gear, meeting people and life then fantastic that is exactly what Hayabusa.org was created for. If the majority of your post were politics, news events or just arguing your opinion then maybe you need to list out your topics and find another site that matches up with your passions. I'm not saying that we can't have a conversation about what is going on in the world for goodness sake but at some point you put your opinion out there in a conversation and step back, it takes two to have an argument and if you want a topic to go away then just ignore it and in a few days most likely if will fall off the list of new post.
We need to get back to a positive outlook, members caring for other members, sharing about rides, posting pics about what is going on and giving some great advice to those that share a common interest. . The members of this site need to look past the opinions of others and just treat other well and you would be surprised how well that goes over and the total attitude and demeanor on the site changes....
Happy New Year Everyone...
Cap
I've used the old saying "You are either part of the solution or part of the problem" for a long time and for the most part in most situations its an accurate statement.
The world is in a weird place right now where everyone thinks they are right on every topic and that is just not a possible outcome. There will always have to be some compromise, some grey area or ambiguity. I absolutely understand that members are passionate about topics and want to try to argue, prove the others wrong about a topic, be historically the most accurate or take the moral high ground but my question as always is at what cost are you willing to do this?
Is the discussion or argument on the forum that is not motorcycle related worth tearing apart the very foundation of who and what we are as a community? Is your desire to be right so great on a non-motorcycle related topic that you are willing to weaken relationships, cause members to not want to come back or are you willing to be one of those people who just don't know how to be a part of something bigger than yourself?
Sometimes you just have to know that you aren't going to change the mind of the other person on the conversation. You actually have more influence with hundreds and thousands of people when you gracefully bow out of a conversation.
My ask of you all this New Year of 2024 is simply this.... Go take a quick review of your post of 2023 and see what your highest posting topics were, if they were motorcycles, rides, gear, meeting people and life then fantastic that is exactly what Hayabusa.org was created for. If the majority of your post were politics, news events or just arguing your opinion then maybe you need to list out your topics and find another site that matches up with your passions. I'm not saying that we can't have a conversation about what is going on in the world for goodness sake but at some point you put your opinion out there in a conversation and step back, it takes two to have an argument and if you want a topic to go away then just ignore it and in a few days most likely if will fall off the list of new post.
We need to get back to a positive outlook, members caring for other members, sharing about rides, posting pics about what is going on and giving some great advice to those that share a common interest. . The members of this site need to look past the opinions of others and just treat other well and you would be surprised how well that goes over and the total attitude and demeanor on the site changes....
Happy New Year Everyone...
Cap