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> >What would you do? You make the choice! Don't look for a punch line;
> >there isn't one. Read it anyway.
> >
> >My question to all of you is: Would you have made the same choice?
> >
> >At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled
> >children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that
> >would never be forgotten by all who attended.
> >
> >
> >After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he
> >offered a question:
> >
> >"When not interfered with by outside influences, everything
> >nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay,
> >cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot
> >understand things as other children do. Where is the natural
> >order of things in my son?"
> >
> >The audience was stilled by the query. The father continued.
> >"I believe, that when a child like Shay comes into the world,
> >an opportunity to realize true human nature presents
> >itself, and it comes, in the way other people treat that
> >child."
> >
> >Then he told the following story: Shay and his father had
> >walked past >a park where some boys Shay knew were playing
> >baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?"
> >
> >Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want
> >someone like Shay on their team, but the father also
> >understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would
> >give him a much-needed sense of belonging.
> >
> >Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and
> >asked if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance
> >and, getting none, he took matters into his own hands and
> >said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the
> >eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try
> >to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."
> >
> >In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few
> >runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth
> >inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the outfield. Even
> >though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just
> >to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as
> >his father waved to him from the stands.
> >
> >In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.
> >Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential
> >winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at
> >bat.
> >
> >At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their
> >chance to win the game?
> >
> >Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a
> >hit was all but impossible 'cause Shay didn't even know how
> >to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.
> >
> >However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher moved
> >in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at
> >least be able to make contact.
> >
> >The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The
> >pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball
> >softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the
> >ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.
> >
> >The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have
> >easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have
> >been out and that would have been the end of the game.
> >
> >Instead, the pitcher took the ball and turned and threw the
> >ball on a high arc to right field, far beyond the reach of
> >the first baseman.
> >
> >Everyone started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to
> >first!" Never in his life had Shay ever made it to first
> >base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and
> >startled. Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!"
> >
> >By the time Shay rounded first base, the right fielder had
> >the ball. He could have thrown the ball to the
> >second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's
> >intentions and intentionally threw the ball high and far
> >over the third-baseman's head.
> >
> >Shay ran toward second base as the runners ahead of him
> >deliriously circled the bases toward home.
> >
> >Shay reached second base, the opposing shortstop ran to him,
> >turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run
> >to third!" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams
> >were screaming, "Shay, run home!"
> >
> >Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as
> >the hero who hit the "grand slam" and won the game for his
> >team.
> >
> >"That day," said the father softly with tears now rolling
> >down his face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a
> >piece of true love and humanity into this world."
> >
> >AND, NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY:
> >
> >We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a
> >second thought, but when it comes to sending messages about
> >life choices, people think twice about sharing. The crude,
> >vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace,
> >but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed
> >in our schools and workplaces.
> >
> >If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances
> >are that you're probably sorting out the people on your
> >address list that aren't the "appropriate" ones to receive
> >this type of message.
> >
> >Well, the person who sent you this believes that we all can
> >make a difference. We all have thousands of opportunities
> >every single day to help realize the "natural order of
> >things."
> >
> >So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people
> >present us with a choice:
> >
> >Do we pass along a little spark of love and humanity or do
> >we pass up that opportunity, and leave the world a little
> >bit colder in the process?
> >
> >You now have two choices:
> >
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Almost makes me cry...as an aside, kudos to those that learn to treat kids unlike themselves with dignity...

I grew up being around "challenged" children; my Mom worked for a facility that was home to kids people couldn't (didn't) want to take care of due to physical and mental disabilities. We even used to bring a young boy home for weekends as part of a program to get the children around "families". His name was Kane. He was profoundly disadvantaged, couldn't speak, couldn't sit or stand...my sister and I would lay on the floor next to him and read him books...he'd smile and laugh...it gave me so much insight as to how easy it is to make children like Kane happy...

Don't know why I shared that...just brought the memories back from so long ago...
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Of all the different groups of people I've hung out with in my 32 years, I haven't found any better group of people than Motorcycle riders. VaBusa - thanks for sharing, Im not really the sappy type, but sometimes certain things really just hit ya right in the heart.
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I worked as a teacher's aide in a Pre-School class that was 1/2 Regular ed, 1/2 special needs. Some of the kids were extremely autistic, ADHD, etc, some were milder cases. The idea was that if they were included with the regular ed kids from the begining, it would be less of a big deal in the future. I often wonder what became of the kids invloved, and if the idea was successful. It certainly opened my eyes to things I wasn't aware of. It requires patience, butI truly believe that those of us who are fortunate enough not to need special care, should be responsible for those who do. It should be our pleasure to bring all people as much comfort and happiness as we can, not our burden.
 
I read an article recently about a school coach who encouraged one of his players to hit a "special needs" kid on their team in the head with a baseball so he'd have to sit out the game and they'd have a better chance of "winning".

This story reminds me that there's more to Real Sports than learning how to win or get a scholarship.
 
almost cry huh well there was a tear go down my cheek as i completly understand this as my sister is a special need person if more people were like this the world wound be a much nicer place
 
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