So, Long story short, Sarah (lady I've been on some dates with) and I haven't been on dates lately, and we never said if we're an "official Item" for lack of a better term... So, it almost seemed like she was trying to avoid the last date I asked her on, so i just gave up (whatever, no skin off my back)... Well, I went to Tikvat (Messianic Jewish Synagogue I go to occasionally) and was talking to LaJean, a lady there, and I'm kinda liking her. Well on the 1 1/2 hr drive back, my friend Benita and I were talking about this... She was thinking I was diggin on LaJean too. We get along pretty well, and I was debating asking her out the first time we met, but she was going on a missions trip to the Ukraine, and I thought she was going there for a long time, so I didn't bother. Well, she's back, I don't know if she's single... and the thing with Sarah... Oh yeah, that...
So, I'm at work the following Monday, and Sarah swung by. We talked for a bit, but she had to get back to work. I went over there to get a milkshake (got me out of the store, SLOW day), and she said I owe her for making a good milkshake, I told her I'd cook her something one night, and we decided on steaks. Well, her coworker jokingly said "Why don't I get a steak?" and Sarah replied kinda defensively "Why do you think?" I'm getting thrown for loops, on one hand, we've only been on a few dates, and it didn't seem like she's interested... On the other, it seems like she is interested...
So, here's my conundrum... I feel attracted to both almost equally, but keep getting mixed signals from Sarah... LaJean lives about 1 1/2 hrs away, but we seem to have more in common... However, I don't know if she's single... I'm lost as to what to do. What advice do you fine people of the org have for me? Am I thinking too much into it?
Ah the joys of being a single 24 yr old...
Please, no negative responses, unless it's constructive criticism.
So, I'm at work the following Monday, and Sarah swung by. We talked for a bit, but she had to get back to work. I went over there to get a milkshake (got me out of the store, SLOW day), and she said I owe her for making a good milkshake, I told her I'd cook her something one night, and we decided on steaks. Well, her coworker jokingly said "Why don't I get a steak?" and Sarah replied kinda defensively "Why do you think?" I'm getting thrown for loops, on one hand, we've only been on a few dates, and it didn't seem like she's interested... On the other, it seems like she is interested...
So, here's my conundrum... I feel attracted to both almost equally, but keep getting mixed signals from Sarah... LaJean lives about 1 1/2 hrs away, but we seem to have more in common... However, I don't know if she's single... I'm lost as to what to do. What advice do you fine people of the org have for me? Am I thinking too much into it?
Ah the joys of being a single 24 yr old...
Please, no negative responses, unless it's constructive criticism.