Love or like

[yamahor]

Okay, I'm looking for a post I had seen on here a while ago that was something like

If you stay with them cause they look good, it's not love, it's lust.
If you stay with them cause you feel sorry for them, it's not love, it's pity.


I know some of you know what I'm talking about. I need it for a friend who's getting married. I was talking with her earlier on the phone, and the way she sounded, it's like she's marrying this guy cause she feels sorry for him, and he was her first... She then goes on to tell me how she compares him to me, and how I treated her like a queen (Ex girlfriend of mine), and how he's a jerk. I'm hoping if I send her that list, it might shed some light on her situation.


Someone's GOTTA have that list. Help please.

 

[VaBusa]

 

[yamahor]

Why

 

[VaBusa]

Why

Why not

 

[yamahor]

Why

Why not

in that case

 

[VaBusa]

It's free bumps 'til someone smarter comes along...

 

[yamahor]

It's free bumps 'til someone smarter comes along...

Oh, Gotcha... free bumps? Or an oppurtunity for you to threadjack?

Where's Gunny when I need him to run you off?

 

[Pipefighter248]

Not smarter but here's a

for ya both.

 

[VaBusa]

It's free bumps 'til someone smarter comes along...

Oh, Gotcha... free bumps? Or an oppurtunity for you to threadjack?

Where's Gunny when I need him to run you off?

Hey, I'm on a mission to stay top poster on the org; BigBS is closing in fast...

And Gunny fears me...he can't scare me away

 

[yamahor]

It's free bumps 'til someone smarter comes along...

Oh, Gotcha... free bumps? Or an oppurtunity for you to threadjack?

Where's Gunny when I need him to run you off?

Hey, I'm on a mission to stay top poster on the org; BigBS is closing in fast...

And Gunny fears me...he can't scare me away

Now, Anyone with the list, feel free to chime in.

 

[VaBusa]

Yeah, those WITH the list info, please step up...

Hey Ben, did you use the SEARCH feature?

 

[nitrousjunkie]

 

[yamahor]

Yeah, those WITH the list info, please step up...

Hey Ben, did you use the SEARCH feature?  

Umm......










So how bout them dodgers?
Okay, so I have no clue what it would be under... I'll try that now..

 

[VaBusa]

I tried looking for threads with words like "lust" but I can't locate what you're looking for...

Just how long ago was this?

 

[thrasherfox]

Unscientific Answers

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, And your voice caught within your chest?

It isn't Love, it's Like.


You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?

It isn't Love, it's Lust.


Are you proud, and eager to show them off?

It isn't Love, it's Luck.


Do you want them because you know they're there?

It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.


Are you there because it's what everyone wants?

It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.


Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?

It isn't Love, it's Pity.


Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?

It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.


Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?

It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.


Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?

It isn't Love, it's Friendship.


Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?

It isn't Love, it's a Lie.


Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?

It isn't Love, it's Charity.


Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?

Then it's Love.


Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?

Then it's Love.


Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?

Then it's Love.


Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?

Then it's Love.


Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?

Then it's Love.


But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?

Then it's Love.


Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?

Then it's Love.



Now, if Love is painful, and tortures us so,
why do we Love?
Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self?
Why?
Because it's...
Love

Author: Unknown



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[yamahor]

Unscientific Answers

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, And your voice caught within your chest?

It isn't Love, it's Like.


You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?

It isn't Love, it's Lust.


Are you proud, and eager to show them off?

It isn't Love, it's Luck.


Do you want them because you know they're there?

It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.


Are you there because it's what everyone wants?

It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.


Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?

It isn't Love, it's Pity.


Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?

It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.


Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?

It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.


Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?

It isn't Love, it's Friendship.


Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?

It isn't Love, it's a Lie.


Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?

It isn't Love, it's Charity.


Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?

Then it's Love.


Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?

Then it's Love.


Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?

Then it's Love.


Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?

Then it's Love.


Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?

Then it's Love.


But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?

Then it's Love.


Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?

Then it's Love.



Now, if Love is painful, and tortures us so,
why do we Love?
Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self?
Why?
Because it's...
Love

Author: Unknown

THATS what I'm looking for. Thanks bro!

 

[VaBusa]

 

[BigBSBusa]

It's free bumps 'til someone smarter comes along...

Oh, Gotcha... free bumps? Or an oppurtunity for you to threadjack?

Where's Gunny when I need him to run you off?

Hey, I'm on a mission to stay top poster on the org; BigBS is closing in fast...

And Gunny fears me...he can't scare me away

Yes I am.

 

[BigBSBusa]

Glad you got what you were looking for.

 

[yamahor]

Glad you got what you were looking for.

Sneaky posting for ya, huh?