Wow Michael...she is a cute little princess ! YOU ARE IN BIG TROUBLE ???
Is this legal, or should I even care.
- Thread starter DEMMYM
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I feel for you. 
My daughter is 17 now. You can't even imagine how some of her friends act. I thought I didn't have to worry about things until maybe >=12yrs old but her and her girlfriends would tell me stories about other girls in the 9-12 age group doing things that I would have tought they hadn't even known about yet.
One of my friends has three daughters! He's bald now and tends to drink more often now.
My daughter is 17 now. You can't even imagine how some of her friends act. I thought I didn't have to worry about things until maybe >=12yrs old but her and her girlfriends would tell me stories about other girls in the 9-12 age group doing things that I would have tought they hadn't even known about yet. One of my friends has three daughters! He's bald now and tends to drink more often now.
It can't be explained, only experienced.
I think the hard part is finding a balance of what they see on TV (Even on Disney, most of those shows are all about boyfriends) vs. what they experience in life. Today I took my daughter riding 4 wheelers and fishing on my Dad's farm. She had a blast.
Having a girl is my penance for all the stuff that went thru my mind as a 16 year old boy...
Greenbean
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I'm surprised he wasn't arrested and expelled for sexual harrasment!
My "angel" is 16. When we met her boyfriend (who we fondly refer to as dead boy walking) for the first time I just had Kevin/Lurch introduce himself first. That was all it took.
RACER_X
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i hear ya, i have a 4 y.o. daughter and all her friends wanna emulate hanna montona (the next brittany IMO) and we want her to watch Dora.......UGH!
my sis lives in an upper scale part of town, her neighbor is bringing in MS Texas '09 fpr her 5 y.o.'s birthday party..........WOW
when you have a boy, you only have 1 **** to worry about
when you have a girl, you have all of them to worry about.
and yes when she becomes of age, all the boyz will meet me in my boxers cleanin my guns.......
my sis lives in an upper scale part of town, her neighbor is bringing in MS Texas '09 fpr her 5 y.o.'s birthday party..........WOW
when you have a boy, you only have 1 **** to worry about
when you have a girl, you have all of them to worry about.
and yes when she becomes of age, all the boyz will meet me in my boxers cleanin my guns.......
MelodicMetalGod
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First, my condolences. You have an adorable kid there and, therefore, a tremendous challenge as a parent. My 14 year old God daughter is and has been for several years, presenting the same challenge.
1) It's not legal.
2) It SHOULD be done, but...
3) ...don't trust the Nuns...
4) ...and don't let her out until her 40th
5) 9 year olds are very commonly tuning into that type of pop culture.
In all seriousness, at 9, many are even already exploring sexuality, so it's uber-importante to have "the talk(s)" immediately if you haven't already. As someone else posted, the best you can do is educate her with the science and the social aspects of the issues and let her know that she can ALWAYS, as in NO MATTER WHAT, come to you to talk, ask questions, get advice, etc.
Best of luck...we all need it!
Just remember that as hard as it may be, talking to your kids about whats coming up in life and boys girls etc... is really critical.
Keep those lines of communication open, and as distasteful as it may feel, getting your daughters on some form of birth control, and prior to that letting them what options are out there can make the difference between, grandpa and dad...
Keep those lines of communication open, and as distasteful as it may feel, getting your daughters on some form of birth control, and prior to that letting them what options are out there can make the difference between, grandpa and dad...
mine just turned 14...we have the "zero tolerance" policy talk quite often. this school year (2 weeks old btw) point has been made. so far, I'm the mean azzhole that is unfair and makes her life suck because I wouldn't let her spend the night at her friends houses, go to parties, go un escorted to the movies, parks, or mall like "all the other kids"... any how, within the last two weeks, found out 2 of 3 of her best friends are prego
3 others got busted for pot this summer. I know I can't always protect her, but like theft deterrants, I aint gonna make it easy either. she understands ( at least I hope she does) that "fun" as a teenager usually comes at a cost for the rest of the adult life.
3 others got busted for pot this summer. I know I can't always protect her, but like theft deterrants, I aint gonna make it easy either. she understands ( at least I hope she does) that "fun" as a teenager usually comes at a cost for the rest of the adult life.
NIGHTFLIGHT
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True dat
+ for what little my thought,s worth I think have her attend the church of your choice.
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