VaBusa,
Some pretty serious issues, but here are a few examples. First off the kids have absolutely no Respect for their mother...Complete lack of respect for anyone but themselves. They hit when angry, use swear words, defiant behavior, Locking the cats in a small barbie suitcase & locking them in the dog kennel (that was this summer, cats were in the suitcase for a few hours on a 100 degree day & when the cats were found they were sweating & we all know cats dont sweat) since than they have locked the cats / no suit case in the kennel 2 more times / last time being 3 weeks ago. Kids are put to bed at 7pm and still goofing off at 10 pm, 4 year old continually is found in mom's bed in the morning, 6 year old wets her bed everynight. When kids are on timeout for 5 or 10 minutes, they continually scream, get up, or yell at mother. I cant be there all the time but when I am the behavior is hardly present (the kids know Im not gonn put up with it). 4 year old has been know to throw rocks at his pre-school teachers van, and has some behavior issues while in class. The 6 year old does what she wants in 1st grade and doesnt do what the teacher instructs her to do.
I really feel bad for these kids, and mom is completely at a loss of what to do & because we both work, we hardly enough energy to deal with this everyday. Becomming better in some ways, but some of the behavior has got worse in others...without elaborating.