Frank,
I disagree with your first statement. But it's my word against yours that people will listen to. I don't blame you, I'd try to make a first time turbo owner feel comfertable too about they're set up knowing theyll probably come back for a motor and turbo upgrade later after it melts. Over on sh.org where more then half the guys on that site have had that scenereo happen that I discribed. Recently there was a guy with a copper 99 that had over 100k miles on it, turbo since 5k miles, stock motor. He eventually waxed a piston just recently. His "when" came around sometime later, but it happend. Even if god himself did a perfect tune, They can still burn a motor by the inexperienced rider chopping throttle too hard and getting back it to it, and the fmu not being able to respond. And frank you know as well as I do that bad gas can melt a motor, but stock compression are even less forgiving. Although I'll say most the people I know that did melt a motor with a stage one did not have a spacer.
And as far as pistons go, rcc sells they're stage 2 kit with a base spacer, and the site clearly says you can make a reliable 300hp with a stock motor, just a spacer. Anymore and they recommend engine work. Motörhead use to make over 500hp with stock pistons. But the rods are known to fail at 350hp. You know that. This last year my bike has been on 14-15psi with a stock motor, just a spacer. I know that's pushing it. But it's held up to the abuse of long highway pulls in the Texas heat.
I would of sold this guy a spacer and told him to save his money for pistons and rods later if he wanted to go bigger. *The bike only made 257, which would still be considered live able on a stock compression bike with a good tune, attention to timing like you said before. So why the pistons?