Man, when I get over one, she's back at me...

[yamahor]

Women... They confuse me. If you don't wanna read about a woman rant, move on from this thread. THis isn't a "I'm so down, please cry for me" thread, quite the contrary... I just thought this was a funny turn of events...


So, some of you may remember I had a problem getting over my ex, Beth. Well, I'm completely over her. She's a friend, thats it. No feelings other than friends from me to her. As a matter of fact, I've developed a MAJOR crush on her sister Benita. Thats another story with the "cry for me" heading that I'm not using anymore... so... Anyway, We're at a friends house one night (me, Beth, Benita, Brittany, Garrett, Renae, and Lori) and I thought I noticed Beth kinda hitting on me... I didn't say anything. Well, fast forward to when my friend Izzle came to town, we all met up and hung out with her and a couple other friends. Well, I carpooled over with Benita, Garrett, and Brittany, and Beth met everybody there. After the evening was over, we went back to their house (Beth lives at Benita and Brittany's with there parents). Well, their mother happened too be up, and we were talking, and I was explaining something. I put my left hand in the air for some reason, and Beth put her hand up and grabbed mine and interlocked fingers with me... I took my hand away, and she asked if I didn't wanna hold hands with her, and I said Not really. So, that kinda caught me off gaurd. Well, I was talking with Lori one night, and the subject of women came up. Well, I asked if she ever noticed Beth hitting on me, and she was like "Yeah. It's kinda wierd how you finally get over her, and now she's hitting on you"... I'm like "Yeah it is, especially since I REALLY like her sister right now." Anyway, the conversation went on, and I realized something... I have ABSOLUTELY NO feelings for Beth in the GF sense anymore. Thank god... But it is odd, how now that I'm crushin on her sister, she's back to me.


And now, your probably thinking, "Dang, I just wasted all this time reading a pointless blogging from a 23 yr old that has no woman experience." And to that, I say, yep. Pretty pointless, but I felt the need to tell someone... and you people won the contest.

 

[omslaw]

(yamahor @ May 05 2007,01:06) Women... They confuse me.

You and prolly every male, brudda.

 

[KanjiBusa]

Yamahor....You are 23

?

 

[xc700]

 

[Red05]

She probably sensed you crushing on Benita, as opposed to her, and that will get someone's ( I hesitate to say only females) attention pretty quickly.

 

[BlondeOnaBusa]

(Red05 @ May 05 2007,05:30) She probably sensed you crushing on Benita, as opposed to her, and that will get someone's ( I hesitate to say only females) attention pretty quickly.

I agree. Beth is jealous you are "crushing" on her sister. she is trying to reclaim you as her own.

You need a clean blood line dude. If you want to have a descent relationship with a girl never go between sisters.

 

[MC MUSTANG]

(BlondeOnaBusa @ May 05 2007,07:56)

(Red05 @ May 05 2007,05:30) She probably sensed you crushing on Benita, as opposed to her, and that will get someone's ( I hesitate to say only females) attention pretty quickly.

I agree. Beth is jealous you are "crushing" on her sister. she is trying to reclaim you as her own.

You need a clean blood line dude. If you want to have a descent relationship with a girl never go between sisters.

- a clean blood line - that is funny, especially if the sisters have anything against each other, you become part of the battle...

 

[MoosesBusa]

(BlondeOnaBusa @ May 05 2007,08:56)

(Red05 @ May 05 2007,05:30) She probably sensed you crushing on Benita, as opposed to her, and that will get someone's ( I hesitate to say only females) attention pretty quickly.

I agree. Beth is jealous you are "crushing" on her sister. she is trying to reclaim you as her own.

You need a clean blood line dude. If you want to have a descent relationship with a girl never go between sisters.

Listen to her! Moving between Sisters and/or twins is great for Porn movies but in reality its a very difficult thing.
If ya want a fling it will work, if you want a relationship, forget about it. Sisters are competative and you'll be the prize for a short time then you'll be the trophy sold in a garage sale for a quarter.
The ex doesn't want you, she just doesn't want anyone else to want you either. She knows you struggled getting over her and that boosted her ego and made her feel all warm and fuzzy inside knowing she was the object of your obsession. Now that you are moving on and she has lost that status and she is not happy about it. It doesn't make her evil, just human.

 

[Professor]

(BlondeOnaBusa @ May 05 2007,07:56) You need a clean blood line dude. If you want to have a descent relationship with a girl never go between sisters.

Good advice! You need to get a bit further away from that tree. Stay away from both if you can’t keep it as friends only. You are setting yourself up for far more trouble that it is worth.

 

[BigDiesel]

there's only one way to bag that other sister without your ex turning it into WWIII Ben....and thats by doin it IN YOUR DREAMS

leave tha sis alone man....i see NO light at the end of that tunnel-just a dead end.

if you wana hang out with them both-do so....at risk to your personal health (mental n physical!) not to mention theirs... playin with sisters is best left to tha 'playas' out there who dont mind being labeled as total a**holes. Believe me bro-if you make ONE move on the sister, your ex will know, her friends will ALL know, and then the whole family will know....that'll make for awkward times for all man-just let'er be and go fishin in a fresh pond.

just my .02c tho









p.s:it does work AWESOME in porn tho

 

[Ken02busa]

ah go for it. You can always tell the sister "well Beth liked it there, in the car, in public, and of course she was always good to go!"

Then you can go after the cousin, the hot aunt, etc etc LOL

 

[yamahor]

(KanjiBusa @ May 05 2007,02:45) Yamahor....You are 23

?

yep...

 

[yamahor]

(Ken02busa @ May 05 2007,11:31) ah go for it. You can always tell the sister "well Beth liked it there, in the car, in public, and of course she was always good to go!"

Then you can go after the cousin, the hot aunt, etc etc LOL

Never did what you're hinting at... Just dated Beth for maybe a month...



But thanks for the ideas!

Hmmmm.... now, how many women wanna know how I like it?

 

[Fate]

Ok, first of all, all women want to be feel attractive and feel disired even by their guy friends. Girls that are friends with guys still have the urge to have them to themselves especially ex's. She feels threatened and knows you are not interested which makes her interested in you. As soon as you seemed interested in her she would not be interested in you again. It is the desire to have what you can't. She probably does not want her sister to like you. And will try to get you back to keep her sister away from you. This probably means her sister is interested in you. If I was you I would not go there though. More trouble than you need. If you wonder how I know this, I have been in the situation.

 

[KROOZER]

Man.....I think I need to go outside and get a smoke!

 

[GMbusa]

Being that Beth is really young doesn't help either. Move on a get a woman that is a couple years older.

 

[Poppy]

(BlondeOnaBusa @ May 05 2007,08:56)

(Red05 @ May 05 2007,05:30) She probably sensed you crushing on Benita, as opposed to her, and that will get someone's ( I hesitate to say only females) attention pretty quickly.

I agree. Beth is jealous you are "crushing" on her sister. she is trying to reclaim you as her own.

You need a clean blood line dude. If you want to have a descent relationship with a girl never go between sisters.

Absolutely correct. Good advice.......

 

[pward76]

Heck, get 'em both interested - hit on their Mom.

JUST KIDDING!

 

[yamahor]

(pward76 @ May 05 2007,16:50) Heck, get 'em both interested - hit on their Mom.  

I like this mans thinkin...

 

[ike]

(pward76 @ May 05 2007,16:50) Heck, get 'em both interested - hit on their Mom.  

JUST KIDDING!