Anyone have any words of wisdom, besides the one I usually get, "don't do it".
Heading down the isle
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This is the woman you're going to spend the rest of your life with, and over the years, you will change and she will change (what a surprise) and you need to be ready for those changes in BOTH of you. As she changes, you must also adjust to those changes and she must also adjust to your changes. It's a give and take for the sake of the whole. From my experience, you must be able to argue (and you will) and come to a conclusion that you Both can live with. Communication is very important.
Listen to her,...No, really LISTEN to her.
Listen to her,...No, really LISTEN to her.
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Really, really, really, REALLY don't do it ...
Nah, just kidding. I envy you speedfreak, not everyone is lucky enough to find a true soulmate. Keep her close, away from harm, be prepared to die for her and you'll be perfect husband (or was it a floormat, can't remember ;-))
Listen to her,...No, really LISTEN to her.[/QUOTE]
Indeed, women find that most men need some "guidance" in their life. And guess what!?! They are probably right.
Anywayz: just remember, from saturday on, it's no longer "My life", but "Our life".
Nah, just kidding. I envy you speedfreak, not everyone is lucky enough to find a true soulmate. Keep her close, away from harm, be prepared to die for her and you'll be perfect husband (or was it a floormat, can't remember ;-))
Listen to her,...No, really LISTEN to her.[/QUOTE]
Indeed, women find that most men need some "guidance" in their life. And guess what!?! They are probably right.
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Always and I do mean Always get in the last word "Yes Dear"[/QUOTE]
It takes a true man to admit who is the real master in the relationship
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And if you'll excuse me right now, I have to go take out the garbage ...
Yes Dear!!!
It takes a true man to admit who is the real master in the relationship
And if you'll excuse me right now, I have to go take out the garbage ...
Yes Dear!!!
Coming from a single man, all I can say is "Congrats!" I can't give you any words of wisdom because I have no experience in this arena. I guess I would have to agree with the rest of the guys though.
Brian
P.S. Now that thing Mr. Busa said about "takin' it up the butt" is a little harsh. Just hope you're not marrying a fella....
HOPE LIFE TREATS YOU AND THE MISSUS WELL...
Brian
P.S. Now that thing Mr. Busa said about "takin' it up the butt" is a little harsh. Just hope you're not marrying a fella....
HOPE LIFE TREATS YOU AND THE MISSUS WELL...
No she's deffinately a woman, not really into the fudge packin thing, no forget not really, it makes me sick to even think thatComing from a single man, all I can say is "Congrats!" I can't give you any words of wisdom because I have no experience in this arena. I guess I would have to agree with the rest of the guys though.
Brian
P.S. Now that thing Mr. Busa said about "takin' it up the butt" is a little harsh. Just hope you're not marrying a fella....
HOPE LIFE TREATS YOU AND THE MISSUS WELL...
there's folks out there that are.
Guess I'm a little homophobic.
How much are you selling your bike for?
Just kidding. Congrats.
Paul
Paul
Coming from a single man, all I can say is "Congrats!" I can't give you any words of wisdom because I have no experience in this arena. I guess I would have to agree with the rest of the guys though.
Brian
P.S. Now that thing Mr. Busa said about "takin' it up the butt" is a little harsh. Just hope you're not marrying a fella....
HOPE LIFE TREATS YOU AND THE MISSUS WELL...
Congratulations and what he said.
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That is awesome! CONGRATS!
Always be honest! I know, I know... You are like, "duh..." You will see what I mean in a year or more dude.
Oh yeah... And, what OP said... Listen to her (i.e. don't "hear" her, listen).
Marriage is wonderful and way cooler than the hype!
I wish you both the best bro, Vaughn.
Always be honest! I know, I know... You are like, "duh..." You will see what I mean in a year or more dude.
Oh yeah... And, what OP said... Listen to her (i.e. don't "hear" her, listen).
Marriage is wonderful and way cooler than the hype!
I wish you both the best bro, Vaughn.
Here's a few things you need to remember...
Seriously, remember these things...
1. NEVER go to bed angry...
2. Say "I love you" allot.
3. The first and the seventh years are some of the toughest.
4. Make sure she...how to put this...uh...Comes <span style='color:orangered'><span style='font-size:13pt;line-height:100%'>allot!</span></span>
5. If you keep her howlin she won't go prowlin... Crass I know, but it's the truth.
6. Listen carefully, not just to the words but to what she is saying.
7. Don't try to change her.
8. Be a man, don't allways cave to her whim, be strong when she wants you to be, be sensitive when she wants you to be.
9. Be a husband, a man, and a friend to your wife.
10. Be Honest.
Seriously, remember these things...
1. NEVER go to bed angry...
2. Say "I love you" allot.
3. The first and the seventh years are some of the toughest.
4. Make sure she...how to put this...uh...Comes <span style='color:orangered'><span style='font-size:13pt;line-height:100%'>allot!</span></span>
5. If you keep her howlin she won't go prowlin... Crass I know, but it's the truth.
6. Listen carefully, not just to the words but to what she is saying.
7. Don't try to change her.
8. Be a man, don't allways cave to her whim, be strong when she wants you to be, be sensitive when she wants you to be.
9. Be a husband, a man, and a friend to your wife.
10. Be Honest.
I am 52 married 8 years What Brennanop oop's Big O said
awe.....you guys....that was beautifull....if I had a heart,or a soul ...I'd cry . kiddin' .
Marriage my brother , is like a 3 ring circus.
First...the Engagement Ring .
Second...the Wedding Ring .
Third.....the Suffering .
hee hee hee . juz givin ya a ruff time .
Seriously....marriage can be a wonderfull thing , just ask my FIRST wife....I think she's really happy NOW . hee hee hee
No...all kiddin' aside , I think yer gonna have a blast...an' if it all fall's apart...you can always sleep in my garage . he hee.
Your fiance' sounds pretty awesome , judging from the little bits you've said about her , she sounds REALLY SMART , which is why...for the life of me....I cant figure out why she's marrying you . wahaa haa . kiddin man .
LISTEN CAREFULLY . Dont under any circumstances allow her to eat this one particular kind of food . It's a PROVEN SCIENTIFIC FACT , that this one particular food will lead to THE most horrid thing you can imagine . This food item will cause her to lose most of her desire to have sex . You'll be "Chokin the chicken" , "Boppin' the Bologna" , "Rubbin' the Rhubarb" by yerself forever if she gets to eat this one thing .
Do ya know what it is
Wedding Cake . yuk yuk yuk , haw haw haw .
Yer gonna be fine bro....I get the feeling yer both " A little smarter than the average bear ". That will cut down heavily on ..."The stupid fights".
I wish you both....all the best . Andy.
Marriage my brother , is like a 3 ring circus.
First...the Engagement Ring .
Second...the Wedding Ring .
Third.....the Suffering .
hee hee hee . juz givin ya a ruff time .
Seriously....marriage can be a wonderfull thing , just ask my FIRST wife....I think she's really happy NOW . hee hee hee
No...all kiddin' aside , I think yer gonna have a blast...an' if it all fall's apart...you can always sleep in my garage . he hee.
Your fiance' sounds pretty awesome , judging from the little bits you've said about her , she sounds REALLY SMART , which is why...for the life of me....I cant figure out why she's marrying you . wahaa haa . kiddin man .
LISTEN CAREFULLY . Dont under any circumstances allow her to eat this one particular kind of food . It's a PROVEN SCIENTIFIC FACT , that this one particular food will lead to THE most horrid thing you can imagine . This food item will cause her to lose most of her desire to have sex . You'll be "Chokin the chicken" , "Boppin' the Bologna" , "Rubbin' the Rhubarb" by yerself forever if she gets to eat this one thing .
Do ya know what it is
Wedding Cake . yuk yuk yuk , haw haw haw .
Yer gonna be fine bro....I get the feeling yer both " A little smarter than the average bear ". That will cut down heavily on ..."The stupid fights".
I wish you both....all the best . Andy.
I have another tip. "Learn" eachother, by that i mean know what the other will say or do without even starting to do it. Me and my girlfriend have been living together for a few months now. Be open with eachother on everything, trying to hide something from one another can turn out bad, real bad. This can't be stressed enought "LISTEN TO HER!!". If you dont they will know very quickly. The female sex has an amazing memory. There is one thing that will piss me off to no end, and that when i see a guy hit a girl. DONT EVER HIT HER! If you have reached that point, its time to stop and spend sometime to cool off. There are reason seeing this really pisses me off, but dont want to go into that.
I have watched relationships between people for a long time, you will argue about things, just need to remember that you love eachother.
Some other important things to remember:
-Dont look at other girls, unless you want to complain about how they are ugly.
-Dont EVER agree with her when she says she is fat, stupid, ugly, etc.. Because we know they aren't and they are just feeling bad about themselves. (Im still working on convincing my girl of this, and her parents arent helping
)
-Spend alot of time together, if one of you is bored, the other should fix it.
-Tell them you love them, many many times, and ONLY if you mean it(if you don't know it, then you shouldnt be walking down the isle)
-They will ask you question every once in a while that you both know the answer to, they just want to hear you say it.
-you figure the rest out
I have watched relationships between people for a long time, you will argue about things, just need to remember that you love eachother.
Some other important things to remember:
-Dont look at other girls, unless you want to complain about how they are ugly.
-Dont EVER agree with her when she says she is fat, stupid, ugly, etc.. Because we know they aren't and they are just feeling bad about themselves. (Im still working on convincing my girl of this, and her parents arent helping
-Spend alot of time together, if one of you is bored, the other should fix it.
-Tell them you love them, many many times, and ONLY if you mean it(if you don't know it, then you shouldnt be walking down the isle)
-They will ask you question every once in a while that you both know the answer to, they just want to hear you say it.
-you figure the rest out
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