I would stay with stockers. I'm surprised you only got 7K out of them.
If you get a buildup of road crap on your sliders, it will accelerate wear on the seals. A tiny little burr from a rock hitting your slider will also destroy your seals. Improper oil levels (too much) will also help to add stress to a seal, as will a fork oil that is too heavy, and creates lots of "stiction"(sticking and friction). Bottoming out frequently creates hydraulic shock that can cause failures, as can defective valving. Sometimes seals just are not installed 100% right, and they fail prematurely.
I would stay away from the so-called "Leak-Proof Seals", as I have encountered a few failures of the garter springs.
One thing that I have noticed is that Showa forks use beefy, double-lip seals, sometimes with additional wipers, and Kayaba uses a smaller seal. Ohlins are in a league of their own.