~~~  So, fess up  ~~~
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I will get married when I can HONESTLY GUARENTEE I will NOT STOP GIVING to someone. I'm not a fan of the bait and swap trick. Also, I would provide her an environment where she wants to keep giving too.... allow the time, the attention to keep doign what WE like. I WILL practice what I preach. So far, they have all been too wrapped up in life to know what life is REALLY about. And they didn't understand how or why I wanted to keep "the chase" going. So, I shouldn't be posting in this thread since I said nothing useful
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Oh, it's all so easy when you're an outsider looking in!I will get married when I can HONESTLY GUARENTEE I will NOT STOP GIVING to someone. I'm not a fan of the bait and swap trick. Also, I would provide her an environment where she wants to keep giving too.... allow the time, the attention to keep doign what WE like. I WILL practice what I preach. So far, they have all been too wrapped up in life to know what life is REALLY about. And they didn't understand how or why I wanted to keep "the chase" going. So, I shouldn't be posting in this thread since I said nothing useful
So full of hope...so sure of how it will be...I recall that...
Yeah No kidding post up ONLY and ONLY if your married... Otherwise... You have nothing valid to add.
But I love ya WWJD...
OK,
- I quit going to the clubs nearly so much...
- I quit hanging around the house alone.
- I quit worrying about who I can and cannot trust.
- I quit not letting anyone know where I was heading.
- I quit serving only my needs and wants.
- I quit being the most important thing in my life.
- I quit sleeping with other women...mostly.
- I quit doing dishes.
(messed up but sorta true much to her displeasure)
- I quit screwing around, and got my sh!d together.
We no longer eat nearly as much McDonalds
We no longer hang up if we're having an argument
We actually get UP at 0700 not get home at 0700
Seriously, I dunno what the hell happens to some folks when they get married. It's as if they have become business partners, or fuggin competing firms. I have seen first hand some great couples (Joker and TKM) that just have it worked out. Is it all Huggy and kissy? Well yeah frequently, but you can just tell they are solid. No Drama. No huge Ordeals...
I dunno why so many couples out there have such a miserable time, stop having Sex, and stop loving one another. It's messed up. If your still married to man or women you don't like? GET THE HELL OUT... Things will be better for everyone. If your not happy at home, then your screwed. I watched guys at work who would stay late even when they didn't have too just to avoid going home to the wife and family... DAYUM, how messed up is that and if your in that situation move the hell on... Life's too short to be miserable 50% of the time...
Work it out, and find a happy place... Or move on and go hike across Europe or something.
OK,
- I quit going to the clubs nearly so much...
- I quit hanging around the house alone.
- I quit worrying about who I can and cannot trust.
- I quit not letting anyone know where I was heading.
- I quit serving only my needs and wants.
- I quit being the most important thing in my life.
- I quit sleeping with other women...mostly.
- I quit doing dishes.
- I quit screwing around, and got my sh!d together.
We no longer eat nearly as much McDonalds
We no longer hang up if we're having an argument
We actually get UP at 0700 not get home at 0700
Seriously, I dunno what the hell happens to some folks when they get married. It's as if they have become business partners, or fuggin competing firms. I have seen first hand some great couples (Joker and TKM) that just have it worked out. Is it all Huggy and kissy? Well yeah frequently, but you can just tell they are solid. No Drama. No huge Ordeals...
I dunno why so many couples out there have such a miserable time, stop having Sex, and stop loving one another. It's messed up. If your still married to man or women you don't like? GET THE HELL OUT... Things will be better for everyone. If your not happy at home, then your screwed. I watched guys at work who would stay late even when they didn't have too just to avoid going home to the wife and family... DAYUM, how messed up is that and if your in that situation move the hell on... Life's too short to be miserable 50% of the time...
Work it out, and find a happy place... Or move on and go hike across Europe or something.
I don't know! I never have said "I DO"
Ahhh, thanks Rev!!
I was waiting for GJoker to post up, but he'll just be a smart a$$ anyway.
I was really scared about getting married. I thought that everything GJoker was/did/thought would change. He just kept telling me that it's just a piece of paper, it didn't change anything. I've seen it change many a people, so I had a hard time believing him.
Well we've been married 12 years now and nothing has changed. We've overcome obstacles, realized several dreams, and are still in love (well most days..
)
When you find the right one, it's all good.
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I was waiting for GJoker to post up, but he'll just be a smart a$$ anyway.
I was really scared about getting married. I thought that everything GJoker was/did/thought would change. He just kept telling me that it's just a piece of paper, it didn't change anything. I've seen it change many a people, so I had a hard time believing him.
Well we've been married 12 years now and nothing has changed. We've overcome obstacles, realized several dreams, and are still in love (well most days..
When you find the right one, it's all good.
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I plead the 5th on grounds I might say something hateful ..
As long as I still have my kids I will always be happy..
As long as I still have my kids I will always be happy..
Wait til ya get kids!
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Hummm. Agreed.I plead the 5th on grounds I might say something hateful ..
As long as I still have my kids I will always be happy..
I also plead the 5th to keep from getting flamed.
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