I see two major problems with this:
1. I am proud of my father, mostly becuase he took me in when I was 8 years old and changed my last name when he adopted me. For this reason and the fact that I am the only male with 3 sisters, I could never disgrace him that way. The name shall live on.
2. Last time I checked, I make good money, pee standing, eat meat off the grill (still rare), shave my face, and don't blead for 5 days every month.
I am not against her keeping her name but don't change who I am.