Kristin you have to stop wrecking the old one first.
I am in process of buying a new Tundra. I am getting rid of my POS Mercedes convertible. I have 8 dealers from San Antonio to Waco working the deal. I have specified exactly what I do, & do not want. So far I have 3 prices w/ about a $2K varience for the exact same truck. I will be paying cash. They all know I work for Lexus & will not be servicing, etc. at their dealership. It is all about the price - period.
I am doing 90% of the work on-line to avoid the sales crap.